01-13-2017, 12:21 AM
(This post was last modified: 01-13-2017, 12:24 AM by Have at ye.)
(01-13-2017, 12:18 AM)Shannon Wrote:(01-12-2017, 10:57 PM)Have at ye Wrote:(01-12-2017, 10:47 PM)Shannon Wrote:(01-12-2017, 10:33 PM)Aventus45 Wrote:(01-12-2017, 10:28 PM)Shannon Wrote: Congratulations! I wonder of this was success in spite of efforts at self sabotage? If it is, the ASS/ART must be pretty good to be able to help with that!
Now that the V card is no longer in play, hopefully this will make things easier on you concerning sex in general. Less worries and expectations.
I hope so too. She agreed to be my fwb as well. I'm also going to run version A and remove some more fears surrounding performance and ,oddly enough, my race.
In my 20-some years since losing my virginity, what I have learned is that as long as she comes out the other end having enjoyed sex and been sexually satisfied, she generally doesn't care how you did it or what you did to get her there.
And if a girl *does* do that, it's indicative of manipulative behavior, which is in turn indicative of her insecurity, based in fear. If that is the case, cut your losses immediately and run like hell. It's not you, it's her. (And this can work both ways).
EDIT
(Just wanted to reassure Aventus45 that it's not an observation relating to his girl here, but a general one. Your new FWB seems like a really good sexual partner, Aventus. Enjoy)
Please define "that", as you used it above. I'm confused what you're referring to with it.
Sorry, not a native speaker (obviously). "That" would refer to caring or - rather - complaining about the way she got hers.
