12-30-2016, 08:47 PM
Maybe this is a sign that I may need more healing and clearing, but I'm of the mind that completely disregarding someone else's culpability due to "knowing beforehand that's how they are" is a cop out. Nobody should get a completely free pass just because of some ignorance, real or feigned. If they don't put in the effort to educate themselves on a thing they very much should reap what they sow, however small that consequence may be.
I don't believe you should completely let this girl off the hook; if you're the forgiving type feel free to choose to forgive her, but definitely keep in mind that that was her second chance with you and she shouldn't have anymore opportunities to keep you around.
I don't believe you should completely let this girl off the hook; if you're the forgiving type feel free to choose to forgive her, but definitely keep in mind that that was her second chance with you and she shouldn't have anymore opportunities to keep you around.
A Better Alex (ISTJ): EPRHA → ASC → AM6 → …
A Sexy Alex (ESTJ-T): BIABWS+DAOS → DMSI → …
A Better Alex (ENFJ-T): AM6 → …
A Sexy Alex (ESTJ-T): BIABWS+DAOS → DMSI → …
A Better Alex (ENFJ-T): AM6 → …