"Blame" is usually a waste of time. It's easy to blame someone else and avoid taking personal responsibility in the cases where it is a waste of time. Part of getting past blame is outgrowing the levels of maturity from which the desire comes to blame others - and that is in DMSI.
The genuinely self realized man takes full personal responsibility, and because doing so sometimes hurts, he learns to streamline himself and his life to avoid that pain. When he does, he naturally removes all of the crap and drama from his life, and his life becomes much more efficient and successful.
Assess situation>Accept it if fault was mine>Decide didn't like the results>don't do that again>life improves and streamlined.
And the results process of this are VERY attractive to women. Why? Because:
Taking responsibility for oneself is done by men, not boys, and
Unnecessary blame is a game boys play, not men.
She wants a man, not a boy.
Not saying that blame never has a place in life. But when you make a mistake, own it, learn from it, refuse to make it again and MOVE ON.
The genuinely self realized man takes full personal responsibility, and because doing so sometimes hurts, he learns to streamline himself and his life to avoid that pain. When he does, he naturally removes all of the crap and drama from his life, and his life becomes much more efficient and successful.
Assess situation>Accept it if fault was mine>Decide didn't like the results>don't do that again>life improves and streamlined.
And the results process of this are VERY attractive to women. Why? Because:
Taking responsibility for oneself is done by men, not boys, and
Unnecessary blame is a game boys play, not men.
She wants a man, not a boy.
Not saying that blame never has a place in life. But when you make a mistake, own it, learn from it, refuse to make it again and MOVE ON.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
