(12-29-2016, 10:34 AM)CatMan Wrote: ... people really seem to hate it when you post anything other than giving endless praise to the sub and posting placebo *****.
Thanks for proving my point. This is my problem. There are much more people experiencing things on DMSI (even if it isn't the target goal) than stonewallers. In fact, there's only two -- you and Swisston.
Off the top of my head:
Eternity is getting insane results.
Leonidas is getting insane results.
Sarge is getting great results.
RTBoss has experienced a complete shift in the dynamics of his marriage, and is expecting a new child.
ZeroXMachina is getting laid.
Aventus has seen good results.
Illumi has seen good results.
I have a virgin chasing me around literally begging to get f*cked.
Are we all experiencing placebo, CatMan? Are you not subtly suggesting that we're incapable of differentiating between real massive change and hopeful delusion?
We have a sample size here of about 30 reporting people. Roughly 92% of that sample have reported some kind of positive shift -- even if it isn't the design goal. You are invalidating these people's pain, their struggles by claiming that it's all "placebo bullshit" just because you aren't getting results, and this isn't the first time you've done that.
We're all in this shit together, but you've said multiple times that you have "more to lose," if a woman goes full SJW on you just because you have a business and money. As if no one else's life matters because they aren't as rich as you are. As if they don't have dreams and aspirations that could be ruined by the same thing.
I'm good friends with many of these people. I chat with some of them everyday. I see the hell they're going through trying to forge themselves into something better. They confide in me, and I confide in them. You don't get to stomp on and throw away their experiences because of your personal "burden of proof."
And you don't get to stifle my thoughts on this subject by threatening to leave. You can call it whatever the hell you want: "Looking to start a big argument," or whatever.
We are MEN. We are forged and tempered by the fires of adversity, risk and opportunity. And society wants to beat that out of us. If being challenged scares you (or anyone else for that matter), then enjoy never reaching your full potential. Enjoy giving in.
Otherwise, stop acting like a damn victim.