Shannon's DMSI 3.01-A Journal V2

[FluffyBunny]

Sense of humor is definitely coming out in response to DMSI. And I am using it to flirt. A lot.

Shannon I want you to know that this testimonial is very important to me. My history with the ladies in terms of fun is a hit or miss. If I did get their funny bone I escalate and got laid, but the fun, the humor is not consciously there nor a complete part of my personality. What result I have gotten is some random thing, I just took the opportunity that is all. I can't believe sometimes that I was so serious in life nor I actually bore the living day lights of some of the ladies I met. I imagine, having DMSI in the long run, having this fun and welcoming vibe and personality, absolutely in control whether conscious or unconscious of it and using them in interaction with the ladies, having this flirtatious and sexual interaction that lead to sex. Hopefully DMSI will permanently bring this out for me just as yours. I hope you can share some story or your conversation with the ladies just for fun.

I can see myself getting laid because of not just my emerging sense of humor, but the playful I'm-having-fun-and-I'm-a-fun-guy attitude it's creating. DGAF, having fun. Join me or don't, I'm still laughing and having fun. I amuse myself, and I'll play and laugh with the ladies, but I'm going to have a good time regardless of what they think or do.

And that, my friends, is irresistible. I'm having an awesome time with it too.

I think I was projecting tonight, although I couldn't feel it. I say that because I noted behavior in four different females while I was out that was unusual. One was wearing what looked like pajama bottoms, and no bra. She was probably mid to late 40's, had a pretty good butt, and was definitely sporting obvious nippies all night. Pretty clearly not wearing a bra, but she had at least a C cup chest. That of course wasn't the doing of DMSI, but I noted that after about an hour of being within range of me, she and the guy next to her started doing things that were definitely not publicly appropriate. He was openly groping her ass and feeling her up between her legs and she was making out with him while he did it.

The bartendress is a Hot Blonde and she's in her mid 40's. She has a teenage daughter who looks so much like her you'd swear she had a MiniMe. She has been giving IOIs for years now, but when she's responsive she always flushes deep red about the face and neck. Tonight, no pheros and of course I hadn't played DMSI since last night. I showed up and she started off white as a sheet and ended up red as a beet about an hour in. I also suspect she was staring, but I was too busy flirting with my server to pay attention. The bartendress came around from behind the bar and came over and said hello to me and greeted me at one point. I'm not sure if that meant anything but I've noticed that during the first year I was going there, she never did that. This last year it has become more and more common, and she always says hello and acknowledges me when she does it.

My server. She's starting to warm up to me over time. Spending more time talking to me over time. Smiling more when we interact. Tonight I was flirting with her a lot, being playful and making jokes. I was coming up with some good stuff, too, and she kept not laughing. At one point, she came by and I said, "Don't you diss my sense of humor, now. I'll eat your damned cookies!" (I brought her a batch of dark chocolate chip/mint chocolate chip cookies for her birthday.) She totally did not register what I had said for several seconds, and then was like, "Oh, I get it." But she didn't laugh. I laughed because it was funny, and because she was being a dork. Not gonna join me in being fun and silly? Too bad, I'm gonna have a good time with it anyway.

And then there was a new server who was (apparently) noticing me and smiling at me, and after a while it became awkward when I caught her noticing me so many times... so we sort of avoided eye contact for a bit and then she started doing it again and smiling at me. I'm not entirely sure she was interested, but the sequence seemed a little bit too thematic for it not to have been something out of the ordinary.

So I suspect that I was projecting, even though I could not feel it.

Had a blast though, enjoying the hell out of my own sense of humor. And I was coming up with some zingers. Like, server came over and said, "Will you be eating anything else?" and out of my mouth comes, "Yes - but not today." The way I said it was pretty funny, and I laughed. I think she was in work mode. Her loss.

I'm loving this effect on my humor module. It's really fun.

When you talked about not listening to it before you went out, it got me thinking i had something similar.

I feel as if, if you listen to it right before you go out, your mind is dealing with so many things, it wont really be projecting much and uses more of your energy in other things like clearing and inward stuff etc...

On the other hand if you ran it the day before you sleep, next day you wake up and go out. seems like you can be more alert and be able to consciously tease and flirt better because you aren't like tired and brain is fogged up with stuff.