12-17-2016, 09:02 PM
So what had happened was... I texted her saying we gotta meet up asap.
She's like yeah let's make a video for the YouTube channel (I started a channel and asked her to be in one video).
Her: Ooohhhh we should tape something at holus!!!!
Maybe like recovery talk or something!!
But me and you need a good sit down
Me (6 hrs later) Yaaasss recovery tape sounds good! But I gotta be Frankie here and say I really am not about meeting at holus. No offense to anyone there because I love the guys there, but I don't want to chill with them. Some of the things I want to talk to you about should not be heard by others anyway.
Somewhere outdoors would be best for the recording, since lighting is best when natural light is used. Or coffee shop. Aa club would be fine but fluorescent lighting sucks balls for videos. Sun is best, always.
Her: Yes for sure!!!! We can meet anywhere!!! Not a problem at all!!!
So, I didn't say what Shannon recommended, just because I don't know how to say something recommended by someone else without sounding like someone else. I dunno how to be direct in what I want (likely a deep fear) so I made my intentions for seeing her alone clear.
Anyway I prefer not to have advice on this by other members on this board, since I can't assimilate multiple opinions into my own personality very well (which is why pua books have been the bane of my existence).
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Tonight I went to a Christmas party at my sisters husbands mothers house. There were about 20 people there, half kids and half adults. The host's friend, a larger mid 40's woman, was clearly being sniped. I caught her staring / eye f*cking me a few times. Ended up chatting with her later, and the eye contact was good, but she seemed to show decent amount of restraint. I am of the notion that she was most certainly affected by the aura, but the socially accepted standards were stronger than the program's ability to smash them, thereby letting this woman resist the clearing. It's possibly just this particular woman is more resistant to clearing than others. More testing on this is required.
She's like yeah let's make a video for the YouTube channel (I started a channel and asked her to be in one video).
Her: Ooohhhh we should tape something at holus!!!!
Maybe like recovery talk or something!!
But me and you need a good sit down
Me (6 hrs later) Yaaasss recovery tape sounds good! But I gotta be Frankie here and say I really am not about meeting at holus. No offense to anyone there because I love the guys there, but I don't want to chill with them. Some of the things I want to talk to you about should not be heard by others anyway.
Somewhere outdoors would be best for the recording, since lighting is best when natural light is used. Or coffee shop. Aa club would be fine but fluorescent lighting sucks balls for videos. Sun is best, always.
Her: Yes for sure!!!! We can meet anywhere!!! Not a problem at all!!!
So, I didn't say what Shannon recommended, just because I don't know how to say something recommended by someone else without sounding like someone else. I dunno how to be direct in what I want (likely a deep fear) so I made my intentions for seeing her alone clear.
Anyway I prefer not to have advice on this by other members on this board, since I can't assimilate multiple opinions into my own personality very well (which is why pua books have been the bane of my existence).
*****
Tonight I went to a Christmas party at my sisters husbands mothers house. There were about 20 people there, half kids and half adults. The host's friend, a larger mid 40's woman, was clearly being sniped. I caught her staring / eye f*cking me a few times. Ended up chatting with her later, and the eye contact was good, but she seemed to show decent amount of restraint. I am of the notion that she was most certainly affected by the aura, but the socially accepted standards were stronger than the program's ability to smash them, thereby letting this woman resist the clearing. It's possibly just this particular woman is more resistant to clearing than others. More testing on this is required.
