12-13-2016, 11:33 AM
(12-13-2016, 11:25 AM)WIP68 Wrote:(12-13-2016, 11:15 AM)eternity Wrote: a woman's words just triggered my inferiority complex and my sensitivity by making her situation seem somewhat superior to what I had to face. And it's making my blood BOIL. I am very angry right now. To the point where I wanna engage in a verbal boxing match with her when I see her. I wouldn't let this get to me but the problem is that I really care about her, and people this close to me can really get under my skin because they know me so well and use what they know about me against me.
i need to be cleared of triggers like this. i can't afford to be reacting so emotionally to something so petty. it's MY inferiority complex that needs to be dealt with. MY sensitivity that is getting me into trouble.
typing it all out, however, has calmed me down a bit. hoping v3.0.1a clears it.
Do you think she is "sh*t testing" you to see what you are made of?
I think so.
Women aren't stupid. They know exactly what buttons to push to trigger whatever pain response they want to see. It usually stems from their own insecurities. I think she is testing your "strength," whether you are worthy of having sex with her.
Now the question is: How are you going to respond (if you do), to win this game of hers?
this makes a LOT of sense. she's showing definite signs of increasing attraction, so she's probably ramping up the shit tests. i'd prefer not to engage in this type of shit test, since the lines between friend and potential sex partner is being blurred for her. Thanks for this post WIP. You have a good point with this. Thanks
