(12-05-2016, 04:08 PM)Benjamin Wrote:Quote:Whoa in after writing it down, this anger and hatred has been festering inside me for years. Something that was left over from the months of reading the manosphere and red pill garbage.
Yep that's exactly what it is. It ***** me up worse and made me hate women more and i'm glad I stopped reading it. I'm way better for it now.
Exactly why I've said before that the "manosphere/red pill" has it's place...to awaken you to things in the real world. That's great and beneficial, but the problem I've said is STAYING THERE, STATIC. It's great to see all of the non-PC dynamics and get educated on what you've done wrong with things in the past etc. and boo women. But after awhile, if you don't move on and progress, you just ironically become jaded and bitter, a mirror of the hate group you claim to despise. If you hate women or resent them, I'm not sure how you can possibly find healthy ones to be with, the only ones you'll attract are mirrors of you, also jaded and resentful but of men. Let me know how THAT plays out, lmao. They had no answers for anything because of their extreme tunnel vision about pushing for sex only sex sex sex, because their limited framework does nothing for real dating or relationships so there is no depth to it, it isn't sustainable that's why I question how good many of them REALLY are with women. The strategies greatly dehumanise interactions and may get you jaded, damaged club s*uts that are just as resentful and bitter and jaded about men as you are about women, and tons of drama and short term PITAs, but don't seem to get much else. That's why I left all that behind long ago, I found mones, and then found IML. I wanted to move on, move forward, I knew there must have been a healthy middle ground between "red pill/MGTOW/manosphere/RoK/Tom Leykis" and "blue pill/beta bux/mangina"...both are such unhealthy, limiting extremes.
I'm glad that I, and us, have FOUND that middle ground now...
