10-23-2016, 01:52 PM
(10-23-2016, 11:39 AM)4Kingdoms Wrote:(10-23-2016, 11:03 AM)Duke.Togo Wrote: Will I stay with her - probably not. I'm not the kind of person that can really settle down with a steady girlfriend. I think the coffin bit is an example of that as well. I feel boxed in. I tend to keep all of my relationships casual.
Your dream about the coffin makes so much sense now that I understand it's because of her inviting you back to her place. You felt trapped by her invitation!!
You have to ask yourself why you felt this way?? She just wanted MORE sex and I didn't get the impression she wanted a commitment from you!! Be upfront with her, let her know that you like how your relationship is... casual and you want to keep it that way!!
Oh, she knows how I feel about relationships. That's the first rule I have with women whom I have an interest in - I tell them flat out what not to expect from me. And we talked about it again over breakfast yesterday. I think that's why she was resistant to me for so long.
Something tells me though that she is going to get attached, if she isn't already. She checked in with me today again to see how I was. It's nice, the attention I'm getting from her. I just don't want to inadvertently hurt her in the long term.
Breaking women down emotionally isn't really my thing. But, you can't really control what other people feel and there are things that always happen.
All the same, I'm excited to see what happens next.
