I have been feeling so alone.
I realised that I never gave the girl I've talked about the opportunity to voice her feelings. I've learned just how important conflict and drama is to give the person with less power in a relationship the opportunity to voice their feelings. I used to avoid drama at all costs because of Black Dragon but I've come to realise that I was only emotionally damaged and was never going to form a meaningful relationship with an emotionally healthy woman if I won't give her the opportunity to share her hurt with me. Just like with this girl. It'll just spiral out of control into a "no fault" breakup because of misunderstandings and wrong assumptions. It's not Alpha 2.0 to avoid confrontation. It's beta.
I tried picking up a cute waitress. She was signaling very strong interest. She had a boyfriend though. It seems so obvious lol but I guess girls will still find you attractive, flirt with you and want you even if they're taken.
I realised that I never gave the girl I've talked about the opportunity to voice her feelings. I've learned just how important conflict and drama is to give the person with less power in a relationship the opportunity to voice their feelings. I used to avoid drama at all costs because of Black Dragon but I've come to realise that I was only emotionally damaged and was never going to form a meaningful relationship with an emotionally healthy woman if I won't give her the opportunity to share her hurt with me. Just like with this girl. It'll just spiral out of control into a "no fault" breakup because of misunderstandings and wrong assumptions. It's not Alpha 2.0 to avoid confrontation. It's beta.
I tried picking up a cute waitress. She was signaling very strong interest. She had a boyfriend though. It seems so obvious lol but I guess girls will still find you attractive, flirt with you and want you even if they're taken.
