10-05-2016, 08:50 PM
Nah, probably too late. Maybe it's autopilot, maybe I'm being a shitlord, but I totally rejected her over text.
Let me provide context: First, she was so angry at me for being 30 minutes late. Well, I drove 45 minutes to a city that I knew nothing about. The main road to the bar was closed for repairs. Couldn't get to the bar. I texted her, said I was going to be late because the road was closed. When I got to the bar, I go inside. No "P." I texted her, she says: "I left because I thought you were standing me up." I was like wtf, woman. You know I'm from out of town. I texted you that I was late because the road was closed. No -- you were trying to show that you are strong and independent, RAWR!!!
When she finally arrived at the venue, she was very cold and closed off. She walked really far behind me. Whenever I got close, she slowed down. She insisted on lingering behind me. I opened the doors for her (so I could get a glimpse of her body -- damn, she did look good). No "thanks," or anything. Just this entitled ass attitude. Well, she ain't know who she was messing with.
I took control of the convo, tried to lead it. She wasn't contributing at all. So, I just stopped talking and stared at the wall. She finally picked up that I was done, started talking about online dating. She kept whining about how she's not getting any matches online. And the guys she does match with never respond or message her. She also said she never got approached in public -- odd, given that she is very beautiful.
She was extremely shocked that I had so many matches. Was also irritated that I wasn't "flirting" with her. Like, she literally said: "I feel like you haven't flirted with me at all." It's because she was being so damn frigid. It's not fun to flirt with a fucking ice queen.
Then, she kept asking me what I thought the problem was, but I kept avoiding it. I tried all my tricks to get her to open up and laugh, but she kept being critical. Like, this tiny city closes down at roughly 11:00p. I made a joke about "taking off five points" because she lives in a lame town. She grew offended, said it was rude.
I was thinking, chick... calm the fuck down. Flirting and socialization are fun little games -- not a job interview. I was refusing to validate myself to her. Didn't back down on a number of topics. Finally, I was done when she started complaining about how I was 30 minutes late.
So...
I sent her a text. Said I had a fun time (there were times where she was a bit open), but I didn't think we were a good match. Said that physically, she's A+, but was way too icy and closed off. Told her that dating should be fun and jovial. Said to drop her guard and open up a bit and guys will approach.
Abundance mentality. Despite the fact that she was physically gorgeous, I have a Tinder and OkCupid account of other beautiful women. I'm not wasting time on women that I know I'm incompatible with. Like, that date was so annoying that even when I caught a glimpse of that beautiful ass... my dick didn't even get hard because she was that cold. I'd rather fuck a real doll.
Shit.
Let me provide context: First, she was so angry at me for being 30 minutes late. Well, I drove 45 minutes to a city that I knew nothing about. The main road to the bar was closed for repairs. Couldn't get to the bar. I texted her, said I was going to be late because the road was closed. When I got to the bar, I go inside. No "P." I texted her, she says: "I left because I thought you were standing me up." I was like wtf, woman. You know I'm from out of town. I texted you that I was late because the road was closed. No -- you were trying to show that you are strong and independent, RAWR!!!
When she finally arrived at the venue, she was very cold and closed off. She walked really far behind me. Whenever I got close, she slowed down. She insisted on lingering behind me. I opened the doors for her (so I could get a glimpse of her body -- damn, she did look good). No "thanks," or anything. Just this entitled ass attitude. Well, she ain't know who she was messing with.
I took control of the convo, tried to lead it. She wasn't contributing at all. So, I just stopped talking and stared at the wall. She finally picked up that I was done, started talking about online dating. She kept whining about how she's not getting any matches online. And the guys she does match with never respond or message her. She also said she never got approached in public -- odd, given that she is very beautiful.
She was extremely shocked that I had so many matches. Was also irritated that I wasn't "flirting" with her. Like, she literally said: "I feel like you haven't flirted with me at all." It's because she was being so damn frigid. It's not fun to flirt with a fucking ice queen.
Then, she kept asking me what I thought the problem was, but I kept avoiding it. I tried all my tricks to get her to open up and laugh, but she kept being critical. Like, this tiny city closes down at roughly 11:00p. I made a joke about "taking off five points" because she lives in a lame town. She grew offended, said it was rude.
I was thinking, chick... calm the fuck down. Flirting and socialization are fun little games -- not a job interview. I was refusing to validate myself to her. Didn't back down on a number of topics. Finally, I was done when she started complaining about how I was 30 minutes late.
So...
I sent her a text. Said I had a fun time (there were times where she was a bit open), but I didn't think we were a good match. Said that physically, she's A+, but was way too icy and closed off. Told her that dating should be fun and jovial. Said to drop her guard and open up a bit and guys will approach.
Abundance mentality. Despite the fact that she was physically gorgeous, I have a Tinder and OkCupid account of other beautiful women. I'm not wasting time on women that I know I'm incompatible with. Like, that date was so annoying that even when I caught a glimpse of that beautiful ass... my dick didn't even get hard because she was that cold. I'd rather fuck a real doll.
Shit.
