09-25-2016, 10:00 AM
(09-25-2016, 09:56 AM)chaosvrgn Wrote:(09-25-2016, 09:37 AM)Sickologist Wrote: Chaos, the only issue there is that I didn't elaborate enough on that point. My bad.
Let's say you have a kid who had sex with 2 random drunk girls, coulld't cum, they emaaculated him, he felt shame, guilt and all that. Now he's running healing subs.
Another guy who had both very positive and negative sexual experiences with women, he has seen it all. He knows the truth about women and is more clear minded regarding sexual matters.
The difference is, I laugh at weird chicks. An inexperienced guy who is running healing subs do not, he tries to prevent women laughing at him.
So when you say that your masculinity and self worth are not defined by women, but yourself, I completely agree. It's the same here.
But consider this, without all of those "negative" experiences with women, would you have realized that?
This is why the newbies need to get out there and get laid by all means necessary, learn how the game works and then they can heal. Until then, they're just stuck in a loop. I mean, just read some journals...
You've been out enough to recognize patterns and female behaviors accurately. No amount of healing for a newbie can make up for the blood and sweat it takes to get there.
A fair point. Running healing subs is ultimately useless if you're not out there taking action. Men are born in the flames of rejection. I think that's why so many men crash and burn. Their egos are so invested in the validation of women that they completely crumble when rejected.
On the subliminal front...
Resistance is passing. That was absolutely terrible. There was a point where I was getting nauseated, was dry heaving and shit. The headache is now subsiding and the fear / sadness is leaving. I don't quite know what's changed. I do feel very sexual right now and I can feel the sexual energy pouring from me. Also getting motivated to knock out two days worth of work, since yesterday was a total bust.
That's some serious resistance there. Do you know what it's in response to? Or just a general resistance to change?
