09-23-2016, 09:56 PM
it's such a paradox! just like during SM3 lol. We run an attraction sub to attract women, but the side effect is that we stop caring about the very thing we chose to run the sub in the first place.
I'm by no means complaining. It's just mind blowing
So i mentioned this on vivekarora's journal, and I will mention it again here.
There might be a social/cultural reason our results are not as obvious as some of the others have been reporting. India's society is such that everybody is watching everybody else, and people are driven to maintain a certain image so as not to "disgrace the family name" so to speak. So I'm starting to give credit to that fact being powerful enough to reduce our results. India is a highly sexually repressed culture. If a man is exuding a sexual presence, what would society say when they see a girl approach, look at, or talk with this guy? GSF is deeply embedded in the culture in this way.
I must note, however, that there is an interesting effect that most of the time, I'm flat out ghosting. No noticeable respect from males, no attention from females. I'm just a regular joe. The important thing to note here, is that the experience I'm having while ON DMSI, is lower than my standard baseline pre-dmsi. With or without pheromones, I would have people staring me down as a standard Modus Operandi. Now, it's completely nonexistant, literally like I don't exist.
But I know something's going on because the way I view relationships, dating, and women in general have all been changing. Sometimes dramatically from one day to the next, sometimes not at all noticeable until I reflect back a few days later and think "hey that wasn't there before!"
This is freaking crazy though - I haven't even hit 14 days using this sub and already there are profound shifts taking place in my head, which will set the precedent for a future that involves an abundance of women in my life.
BTW all 3 of the tinder girls have gone unresponsive on me. BUT IDGAF LOL. a part of me wants to care. like "WTF 2 of these girls said they are down to meet! Why they gonna do us dirty like this?" and find reasons to be hard on myself. but the sub is shifting that style of thinking. into something along the lines of "Whatever, I can spend more time with my friends who actually mean something to me, and who actually took the time out of their lives to be with me when i was feeling suicidal 3 months ago so f*** these bishes who are most likely a waste of time anyway, and most likely sex won't happen ANYWAY". ha.
damn i didn't expect to write this much but i guess there's some stuff to report after all
I'm by no means complaining. It's just mind blowing
So i mentioned this on vivekarora's journal, and I will mention it again here.
There might be a social/cultural reason our results are not as obvious as some of the others have been reporting. India's society is such that everybody is watching everybody else, and people are driven to maintain a certain image so as not to "disgrace the family name" so to speak. So I'm starting to give credit to that fact being powerful enough to reduce our results. India is a highly sexually repressed culture. If a man is exuding a sexual presence, what would society say when they see a girl approach, look at, or talk with this guy? GSF is deeply embedded in the culture in this way.
I must note, however, that there is an interesting effect that most of the time, I'm flat out ghosting. No noticeable respect from males, no attention from females. I'm just a regular joe. The important thing to note here, is that the experience I'm having while ON DMSI, is lower than my standard baseline pre-dmsi. With or without pheromones, I would have people staring me down as a standard Modus Operandi. Now, it's completely nonexistant, literally like I don't exist.
But I know something's going on because the way I view relationships, dating, and women in general have all been changing. Sometimes dramatically from one day to the next, sometimes not at all noticeable until I reflect back a few days later and think "hey that wasn't there before!"
This is freaking crazy though - I haven't even hit 14 days using this sub and already there are profound shifts taking place in my head, which will set the precedent for a future that involves an abundance of women in my life.
BTW all 3 of the tinder girls have gone unresponsive on me. BUT IDGAF LOL. a part of me wants to care. like "WTF 2 of these girls said they are down to meet! Why they gonna do us dirty like this?" and find reasons to be hard on myself. but the sub is shifting that style of thinking. into something along the lines of "Whatever, I can spend more time with my friends who actually mean something to me, and who actually took the time out of their lives to be with me when i was feeling suicidal 3 months ago so f*** these bishes who are most likely a waste of time anyway, and most likely sex won't happen ANYWAY". ha.
damn i didn't expect to write this much but i guess there's some stuff to report after all