09-15-2016, 11:54 AM
(09-15-2016, 11:37 AM)LeonidasXVI Wrote:(09-15-2016, 11:13 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(09-15-2016, 10:30 AM)LeonidasXVI Wrote:(09-15-2016, 10:21 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(09-15-2016, 10:17 AM)LeonidasXVI Wrote: It's a common fantasy for lots of women to have men not give a f*ck about what they want, and just have their way with them. After all, light and dark are two sides of the same coin.
Yes I completely agree. I do think, however, that the more you can be genuine with your selfishness, the better. After all, it wouldn't fulfill such a fantasy if it were staged.
So, I guess, it all comes down to doing your own thing, and trusting that you will attract that which you'll attract.
I totally agree, man.
Selfishness is selflessness.The more genuine you are with your selfishness, with what you want, the better are your chances to meet people who align with what you want, and fulfilling and "pleasing" them too.
YES!In fact, this is making me think what I need to work on is being ok with my selfishness. There's so much GSF surrounding it that I don't embrace it unless I'm in a very strong negative state. I think that's why women like me when I hate them because I cut them off and focus only on what I can take from them pleasure-wise.
I'd really like to get to the point where I'm ok with this but I'm not sure how. More OGSF maybe.
Or, perhaps Shannon could put this in DMSI. Dark Sexual Energy version.
It's totally possible that women are not reacting to the hate, but your lack of shame and guilt when you are in that state of mind.
Think of it this way. You, when you are "normal" - - This is what I want, but I am not sureeee because shame/guilt. You, when you are on "hate mode" - - This is what I want, and you f*ucking better get outta here if you can't give that to me. And this is hot for some women.
Hate isn't an alpha male trait, but hate is aggressive by it's very nature. And most importantly, your hate conveys your unapologeticalness. So it only makes sense why would women react to it.
Better though if you can reach this state of unapologeticalness (is that even a word? lol) without hate.
That makes sense to me. I think a few degrees more positive and hate becomes passion tho.