09-15-2016, 09:06 AM
The other day I met a woman who is physically everything I find attractive in a woman: she's petite, slender, long wavy red hair, freckly face and lips, beautiful eyes, beautiful lips, and ready to go. I suggested modeling to her, and she asked, "When and where?"
We exchanged numbers, and she put her schedule in my phone.
I tried texting twice, and then calling once. Her boyfriend answered, and wasn't too pleased.
Boyfriend or not, I wasn't going beyond three strikes. I'm not desperate. I have a life, and she may be physically attractive, but I just don't give a fuck. Few days later I was where she works, and she texts me asking me, "Is that you I see?" Spent a good half hour talking to her there. Had a wonderful conversation, but her excuse for flaking was, "I never look at my phone."
I laughed, incredulous. Then I looked at her chart.
She wasn't kidding. She's a space cadet, plain as day. She told me, promised me, that she would text me this week to set up a photoshoot. She hasn't yet, and we only have a couple days left.
My money is on, she never will.
I also just don't give a fuck.
The moral of the story is: women flake, sometimes because it's their very personality, and sometimes because it's easy and they can.
But if she flakes, she's not worth my time to chase. She has shown her lack of interest, and I'll forget her as quickly as she forgot me. Believe it.
Why worry about flakes? Look for someone who won't. You know... genuine interest, respect, etc.
We exchanged numbers, and she put her schedule in my phone.
I tried texting twice, and then calling once. Her boyfriend answered, and wasn't too pleased.
Boyfriend or not, I wasn't going beyond three strikes. I'm not desperate. I have a life, and she may be physically attractive, but I just don't give a fuck. Few days later I was where she works, and she texts me asking me, "Is that you I see?" Spent a good half hour talking to her there. Had a wonderful conversation, but her excuse for flaking was, "I never look at my phone."
I laughed, incredulous. Then I looked at her chart.
She wasn't kidding. She's a space cadet, plain as day. She told me, promised me, that she would text me this week to set up a photoshoot. She hasn't yet, and we only have a couple days left.
My money is on, she never will.
I also just don't give a fuck.
The moral of the story is: women flake, sometimes because it's their very personality, and sometimes because it's easy and they can.
But if she flakes, she's not worth my time to chase. She has shown her lack of interest, and I'll forget her as quickly as she forgot me. Believe it.
Why worry about flakes? Look for someone who won't. You know... genuine interest, respect, etc.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
