I've cut off people who act the way they do, gents. I have no time for that "if I'm not happy, nobody else will be happy, I'll try to ruin their day so they're miserable too" BS. No thanks. I'd rather have no friends than "friends" like that. Up to you, but me personally, I'd be checking out. Otherwise, you tend to pick up the traits, be that positive or negative in this case, of those around you, and they hold you back in life. If people aren't going in the same direction as me in life, and have a balanced positive proactive attitude, I'll give it a chance for a bit. Everyone gets into a funk at times so I give them a chance. But if they are often negative or toxic, then bye bye.
Trust me, it feels great to rid yourself of anchors like that. I've "grown out" of friends many many times in my journey. Nothing wrong with it or them, we're just at different stages in life. You need people around you wearing the same jersey as you.
Trust me, it feels great to rid yourself of anchors like that. I've "grown out" of friends many many times in my journey. Nothing wrong with it or them, we're just at different stages in life. You need people around you wearing the same jersey as you.
