09-04-2016, 02:48 PM
(This post was last modified: 09-04-2016, 02:52 PM by Sickologist.)
Popularity and sexual experience is relative. A guy who nailed more girls than me and it doesn't mean he fucks better than me. And who cares? Besides, the past doesn't matter. They're just people. No matter how hot the girl, she's still insecure. A lot of that shit is a mirage. When you think about the amount of ASD and LMR (only happens if you're not aggressive enough) going on and that I've experienced countless times, most people in clubs aren't that experienced with anything.
I mentioned clubs as a confidence booster. A good looking guy will have girls grinding on him in clubs in the US. At clubs in South Beach every time I went out 10+ girls would either start grinding on me or initiate something with me. There's no better indicator that says that's an attractive guy.
It'll take time to get totally comfortable in clubs when you go out alone. It will take patience and in a lot of cases boredom to get results in clubs. I'm more of bar guy myself, way higher success rate in bars.
The good thing about clubs is that you will dance with girls and you don't have to talk to them because of the loud music. Actually you don't even have to dance, just barely move while she dances on you. Looks better too. Getting laid in clubs ain't that easy though. You need to look around you and understand what's going on. I started clubbing when I was 18 and didn't have a fucking clue. I was also lost in there, but I learned quickly.
What I've learnt is that you look for small groups of girls, 2 and no more than 3. They're more likely to hook up with a single guy. Groups of 5+ girls usually have detailed an entire plan that they will stick to no matter what, even if one of them is hot for you. It's more effective to bring girls to clubs, but personally I find that boring and redundant when I can call some people and have them set up a party instead.
I'm just saying, when you look good you'll get away with murder. If you got the stones to approach it's realistic to get a decent looking DTF girl home with you 1 out of 3/4 nights. In a bar, every night is realistic, but you'll need some social skills. The most important things are obvious, that she's DTF and you pass her looks threshold (which you will and then some).
I mentioned clubs as a confidence booster. A good looking guy will have girls grinding on him in clubs in the US. At clubs in South Beach every time I went out 10+ girls would either start grinding on me or initiate something with me. There's no better indicator that says that's an attractive guy.
It'll take time to get totally comfortable in clubs when you go out alone. It will take patience and in a lot of cases boredom to get results in clubs. I'm more of bar guy myself, way higher success rate in bars.
The good thing about clubs is that you will dance with girls and you don't have to talk to them because of the loud music. Actually you don't even have to dance, just barely move while she dances on you. Looks better too. Getting laid in clubs ain't that easy though. You need to look around you and understand what's going on. I started clubbing when I was 18 and didn't have a fucking clue. I was also lost in there, but I learned quickly.
What I've learnt is that you look for small groups of girls, 2 and no more than 3. They're more likely to hook up with a single guy. Groups of 5+ girls usually have detailed an entire plan that they will stick to no matter what, even if one of them is hot for you. It's more effective to bring girls to clubs, but personally I find that boring and redundant when I can call some people and have them set up a party instead.
I'm just saying, when you look good you'll get away with murder. If you got the stones to approach it's realistic to get a decent looking DTF girl home with you 1 out of 3/4 nights. In a bar, every night is realistic, but you'll need some social skills. The most important things are obvious, that she's DTF and you pass her looks threshold (which you will and then some).
