08-20-2016, 02:18 AM
Every girl has a window of availability. That's why I never care about "rejection". That's why I also never cross out any names on the list so to speak.
She's not saying no, she's saying not right now. In other words, you're her second choice which kinda sucks but it's how the game works. If the other dude doesn't pull the trigger, it's back on.
I'd just wait a couple of weeks and then see about it. You're definitely having the right mentality, not being so damn sensitive and unaware like most guys are and keep talking to other girls. It can be frustrating, I remember this chick at a college party who violently rejected me and then a couple of weeks later she flashed her tits at me from her apartment window and signallled for me to take the elevator. Once I got up she said "I'm not a sl*t" which was a compliment from her. I didn't understand it then, but later it all made sense.
She's not saying no, she's saying not right now. In other words, you're her second choice which kinda sucks but it's how the game works. If the other dude doesn't pull the trigger, it's back on.
I'd just wait a couple of weeks and then see about it. You're definitely having the right mentality, not being so damn sensitive and unaware like most guys are and keep talking to other girls. It can be frustrating, I remember this chick at a college party who violently rejected me and then a couple of weeks later she flashed her tits at me from her apartment window and signallled for me to take the elevator. Once I got up she said "I'm not a sl*t" which was a compliment from her. I didn't understand it then, but later it all made sense.
