Could DSMI v2.2 fix this?

[Shannon]

Well she knows the rules, and she knows I don't care if it's Luke Bryan or the garbage man.

Just get this right. You achieved with your girlfriend that you can sleep with other women and she wouldn't sleep with anyone else?

Yes. And if she isn't happy with those rules, she is always free to go her own way. She follows these rules of her own free will because I and what I bring to the table are more than worth it for her.

Even though it's not a goal listed for the program, would DMSI be conducive for creating a relationship like this given that the circumstances support it?

DMSI is very useful for creating a relationship if it is used the right way. But the relationship that results will depend on what the parties involved agree to up front.

Most people just assume the rules at the beginning of a relationship. You have to know what you want beforehand, and state that up front when you start a relationship. Hammer out what you are both willing to accept in terms of the rules. Openly. Overtly. Honestly.

You can have any kind of relationship you want, as long as you know what you want, stick to your guns and you're open and honest about it up front. Whatever your rules are, not everyone will be willing to play by your rules, but some will. You just have to be honest with yourself and those you seek a relationship with.