08-14-2016, 06:13 AM
(08-13-2016, 09:46 PM)blackwing Z Wrote: Damn, reading this gives me a whole new perspective on relationship dynamics. i almost feel like i was autistic before hahah.
So... have you figured out a way to make your woman feel good in the relationship? Like not insecure? Because at the end of the day its still ur special somebody. Im also assuming u did AM5 or 6 and now she will open up more naturally to you. Has that been the case?
I ask because I would love to make my relationship work no matter what... girl is really fun, disciplined and beautiful.
At the end of the day, your girl is a human being with thoughts and feelings. A relationship requires thoughtfulness, kindness, and a physical connection. But it also requires boundaries, communication, and conflict resolution (which boils down to boundaries and communication).
In my case, doing things for my wife that show that I'm thinking of her (without need of coercion), and that I love her are paramount to her confidence in our relationship. When she gets down on herself, I merely show her through contrast how she is beautiful, intelligent, accomplished, whatever. I try to show her how to validate herself, rather than get her validation solely through me. I believe a healthy relationship is comprised of two whole, healthy human beings - not that "you complete me," point-of-view.
