Shannon's DMSI V2.2 Journal

[Shannon]

Shannon,

I was reading your post about your restaurant visit and it sounds familiar along the same themes as I experience. Lots of attraction, but then there's the hesitations from the women when it comes to following up with actions related to the attraction that might lead to something sexual. Like such high attraction also brings up a lot of inner conflicts for them. They're so attracted and drawn, and then they slam the brakes on when it comes time for them to follow through with real actions congruent with those feelings.

In the case of D and her co-worker H (who gave me her number and asked me to call) we have to consider two factors. First, H is married... so can't really expect much there. Second, H and D are both doing this in front of their boss and coworkers, who all know I have a girlfriend. So she can't be too eager, even if she wants to.

But that's okay, because I'm going to get D to initiate anyway. It's H initiating that worries me, her being married and all...