08-12-2016, 07:16 PM
Shannon,
I reflected back on your post you left in response to mine about increased clumsiness women are demonstrating by just being in my vicinity.
So now, an update. I was out shopping. Every women I talked with had about the same pattern with me. They started off being very happy to see me. Engaging. Able to form complete sentences.
By the 5 minute mark or sooner, they couldn't stand still. They would be clumsy... their fine motor skills were shot. (One example was a woman who had worked in this clothes department for years kept tangling up the clothes and hangers and couldn't undo them without my help. Another one almost knocked over a manikin when she was trying to figure out how close to stand next to me.) They would be unable to make eye contact with me. They became more and more self-conscious. The more clumsy they got, the more self-conscious they got. They seemed to have a harder time thinking, for example I'd ask them very simple questions and they'd stare off into space or give me the DIHL look. It's like all they could do is react emotionally in the moment, without enlisting the support of their higher brain functions. They were very apologetic, but I was never really sure what they were apologizing for.
Basically within a few minutes of just being around me and some casual small talk that was definitely within the confines of their jobs, they couldn't function. They also seemed conflicted about whether to stand close to me or stand 6 feet away from me.
I didn't notice any blushing today.
I've never in my life seen women so consistently, intensely, and reliably self-conscious, nervous, clumsy, cognitively nonfunctional, and apologetic around me.
I think you said that when the attraction circuits are hit rapidly, something like this is expected.
At first I was almost amazed all this was happening. By now I've seen it so many times in the past 2 weeks or so, keeping a poker face and nonchalant attitude about it is second nature because I've seen it so often.
Here is where I need your insight... what now? I admit I really wasn't interested in going out with any of these women, even though they were all attractive. I just wasn't that interested in them. However if I was, what would you recommend I do? (I feel a bit out of my element here because I'm used to women being moderately excited and fairly comfortable around me when I invite them to do something, instead of being almost unable to function.)
I reflected back on your post you left in response to mine about increased clumsiness women are demonstrating by just being in my vicinity.
So now, an update. I was out shopping. Every women I talked with had about the same pattern with me. They started off being very happy to see me. Engaging. Able to form complete sentences.
By the 5 minute mark or sooner, they couldn't stand still. They would be clumsy... their fine motor skills were shot. (One example was a woman who had worked in this clothes department for years kept tangling up the clothes and hangers and couldn't undo them without my help. Another one almost knocked over a manikin when she was trying to figure out how close to stand next to me.) They would be unable to make eye contact with me. They became more and more self-conscious. The more clumsy they got, the more self-conscious they got. They seemed to have a harder time thinking, for example I'd ask them very simple questions and they'd stare off into space or give me the DIHL look. It's like all they could do is react emotionally in the moment, without enlisting the support of their higher brain functions. They were very apologetic, but I was never really sure what they were apologizing for.
Basically within a few minutes of just being around me and some casual small talk that was definitely within the confines of their jobs, they couldn't function. They also seemed conflicted about whether to stand close to me or stand 6 feet away from me.
I didn't notice any blushing today.
I've never in my life seen women so consistently, intensely, and reliably self-conscious, nervous, clumsy, cognitively nonfunctional, and apologetic around me.
I think you said that when the attraction circuits are hit rapidly, something like this is expected.
At first I was almost amazed all this was happening. By now I've seen it so many times in the past 2 weeks or so, keeping a poker face and nonchalant attitude about it is second nature because I've seen it so often.
Here is where I need your insight... what now? I admit I really wasn't interested in going out with any of these women, even though they were all attractive. I just wasn't that interested in them. However if I was, what would you recommend I do? (I feel a bit out of my element here because I'm used to women being moderately excited and fairly comfortable around me when I invite them to do something, instead of being almost unable to function.)
