(08-10-2016, 09:29 AM)chaosvrgn Wrote: Your first mistake is the ridiculous usage of the word "misogynistic," which was originally coined to describe systematic hatred of women. Systematic -- as in, built into social structures like the Jim Crow laws that systematically limited the rights of Black people from the 1800s to the mid 1960s. Now, the term is being used to describe any male that recognizes and openly discusses the fact that woman are not inherently virtuous -- that they too are flawed creatures governed by their primal instincts, just as men are. "Disrespecting" women that aren't worthy of respect is not "misogyny." If anything, it's exposing them to the equality that they demand because they're being treated the way a man would be treated if he acted so... uncouth.
"A misogynist is a person who hates or doesn't trust women. Misogynist is from Greek misogynḗs, from the prefix miso- "hatred" plus gynḗ "a woman." The English suffix -ist means "person who does something."
I think the misunderstanding is that you think that because I think men need to treat women with mutual respect & diginity you think that i'm a pushover or let women walk all over me or that I am very beta around women. Not the case at all. I'm very assertive and dominant around women as well but I respect EVERYONE until they prove to me they don't deserve my respect.
I don't think the lifestyle that society wants people to live is healthy.
(go to school ---> get married ---> work all your life as a slave ----> retire broke)
I don't agree with society at all. However what i'm trying to say is you can still get laid and have multiple relationships without being a disrespectful, abusive man.
I'm not saying you can't have Rough, dominant sex in the bed room and do wild stuff int he bedroom. But I'm saying treat a women with respect until she proves you otherwise. Then kick her to the curb and move on.
But coming from a place where women are just sexual objects is not healthy or normal in my opinion.
Personally If I had to resort to acting like someone I'm not or having to play immature childish or disrespectful games with a women to get her to stay with me then I rather not be in a relationship with that person at all.
That behavior is repulsive too me and if she responds to that behavior than she's not the type I like.
