Shannon's DMSI V2.2 Journal

[Jones]

What im saying is, we need to identify that "it" factor and magnify it. Getting women to initiate sex in public is next to impossible without it.

So what exactly do you guys think that "it" factor is? Wealth/fame/power?

I've been catching up with this thread. Interesting reading.

There have been several profound answers, and a few others that, while they were not answers 'per se,' definitely seemed to touch on the essence of various components of the "IT" factor.

I offer my opinion of what constitutes the "IT" factor, based on the observations I have made over the last 48+ years. Though it manifests differently, there are some distinct commonalities among those who have the greatest success with people (not just women).

1. Supreme Confidence - above all. Not just self-assured, but "over the top" confidence.

• YOU are the prize. NEVER 'need' a woman.
  
• You DESERVE any woman that strikes your fancy.
  

2. "DGAF attitude" - NOT the cold, standoffish rudeness of the poser who is attempting to be a 'bad boy.' But the attitude of one that will not be deterred.

• The man with focus, who has a life purpose, a mission, and does not allow himself to be distracted.
  
  
• If you're not familiar with the idea of "frame." Imagine your life is a painting (whether it's a Van Gogh, a Salvador Dali, or a DaVinci is irrelevant)... NEVER step out of your painting into someone else's. It is SHE who must step into your painting, and abide in your reality.
  

3. Be a gentleman: Not just 'behave like a gentleman'... BE a gentleman... the titled "landed gentry" kind of gentleman. Somewhere in the mists of time, we are all descended from Kings. Now act like it.

• You are the social equal of anyone you meet. Whether you are interacting with Elizabeth II, Donald Trump, or the homeless guy on the corner. No one is "beneath you."
  
  
• Make those around you feel comfortable WITHOUT using the "back stairs" (how the servants traversed from floor to floor in 19th century manor houses).
  
  
• Control your temper - "roid rage" is a myth perpetuated by men who want to excuse their bad behaviour.
  
  
• Be kind, but aloof. Until she proves otherwise, a woman is nothing more than an accessory.
  
  
• "Never let 'em see you sweat."
  

You may have noticed the seeming contradiction between "you are the prize" and "you are the social equal of anyone you meet."

Put another way, you must internalize the fact that you are the prize... NOT consciously advertise it. Believe me, it will show.

You ARE the social equal of anyone in the world. Never feel intimidated or outclassed by another human being. They all have bodies that wrinkle and wear out, just like yours.

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Some years ago, there was a dating book called "The Rules."

After pondering it for some time, it finally dawned on me that the authors were projecting.

We humans tend to "project" our thoughts, feelings, motivations, and world view onto others. In the way that a liar thinks everyone is lying, a thief thinks everyone is a thief, etc.

I believe that if men were to read this book and tailor it just a little, it would be far more effective as a manual for making a woman fall for a man.

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Shannon, has any testing indicated what may happen if I run three loops of DMSI 2.2 every night when my wife and I go to bed?

I can't try it yet, because I'm currently on E2 for a while longer.