Like I said, I've taken a break from this sub and I'm still doing the EHPR2 sub.
Especially during my summer break as that's a time my moods and thoughts tend to go AWOL (with the extra time, no distraction of work).
But if and when I DO return to a love-life sub, it might be this or it might even be
Attract your perfect American romantic lover.
I mean, I sometimes get on SO well with American guys, I was thinking about that sub again about 2-3 days ago when I was chatting on skype with this guy from New York about hypnosis and NLP & stuff but also we just got on SO well and that seems to be par for the course with me & American guys OBVIOUSLY not all Americans are the same and some are huge players. But I also briefly dated a New Yorker, actually (in 2014) and well I enjoyed it! And I got on really well with him too.
I still haven't made up my mind about the sex thing heh heh.
I have an ex lover who, I may have mentioned this, I forget, he and I right-swiped each other on Tinder and we've been in touch since. But so far things keep coming up and we haven't met. He really REALLY wants to have sex with me (although on some level he MUSTN'T want that - probably both of us are putting up barriers?
And I'm like, well let's meet and see what happens, I don't think we've seen each other for maybe two years, who knows if there will still be attraction etc. What will happen if we do, I don't know. He IS someone I've already had sex with in the past anyway. I DID have sex with him early on erm but on the OTHER hand, he HAS even proposed to me twice in the past and said he wants to have a baby with me (and more recently he's said if it wasn't for me not wanting to have kids, he WOULD be my boyfriend - and yes on Tinder of all places he's more or less said he wants a relationship leading to more. So, in THAT case at least MAYBE it WASN'T sex too soon that was the issue? No idea :-) But at the moment it's only sometimes calls and texts between us. It's nice to have that though. But that's what my love & sex life have dwindled down to! Oh well!
But also, I think the sub HAS been helpful in some ways, as I've said about, and also I definitely definitely needed to switch to EHPR2 for a little while first and lay the foundation. Pun not intended! (Sorry, couldn't resist ;-) )
Apart from THAT
my phone has been SO glitchy so Tinder doesn't work, kik doesn't work - and bluestacks etc. sound dodgy - and I tried Plenty of Fish again but this time a different way, hiding my profile and only contacting guys I felt attracted to.
And it was a DISASTER.
I contacted 30 guys and 4 replied - no, 5, I think? 4 were interested and 1 of those was married. And also, later on they all disappeared from the site!
So I am actually going through a man-drought, but it's ok.
I just hope it doesn't last TOO long!
Especially during my summer break as that's a time my moods and thoughts tend to go AWOL (with the extra time, no distraction of work).
But if and when I DO return to a love-life sub, it might be this or it might even be
Attract your perfect American romantic lover.
I mean, I sometimes get on SO well with American guys, I was thinking about that sub again about 2-3 days ago when I was chatting on skype with this guy from New York about hypnosis and NLP & stuff but also we just got on SO well and that seems to be par for the course with me & American guys OBVIOUSLY not all Americans are the same and some are huge players. But I also briefly dated a New Yorker, actually (in 2014) and well I enjoyed it! And I got on really well with him too.
I still haven't made up my mind about the sex thing heh heh.
I have an ex lover who, I may have mentioned this, I forget, he and I right-swiped each other on Tinder and we've been in touch since. But so far things keep coming up and we haven't met. He really REALLY wants to have sex with me (although on some level he MUSTN'T want that - probably both of us are putting up barriers?
And I'm like, well let's meet and see what happens, I don't think we've seen each other for maybe two years, who knows if there will still be attraction etc. What will happen if we do, I don't know. He IS someone I've already had sex with in the past anyway. I DID have sex with him early on erm but on the OTHER hand, he HAS even proposed to me twice in the past and said he wants to have a baby with me (and more recently he's said if it wasn't for me not wanting to have kids, he WOULD be my boyfriend - and yes on Tinder of all places he's more or less said he wants a relationship leading to more. So, in THAT case at least MAYBE it WASN'T sex too soon that was the issue? No idea :-) But at the moment it's only sometimes calls and texts between us. It's nice to have that though. But that's what my love & sex life have dwindled down to! Oh well!
But also, I think the sub HAS been helpful in some ways, as I've said about, and also I definitely definitely needed to switch to EHPR2 for a little while first and lay the foundation. Pun not intended! (Sorry, couldn't resist ;-) )
Apart from THAT
my phone has been SO glitchy so Tinder doesn't work, kik doesn't work - and bluestacks etc. sound dodgy - and I tried Plenty of Fish again but this time a different way, hiding my profile and only contacting guys I felt attracted to.
And it was a DISASTER.
I contacted 30 guys and 4 replied - no, 5, I think? 4 were interested and 1 of those was married. And also, later on they all disappeared from the site!
So I am actually going through a man-drought, but it's ok.
I just hope it doesn't last TOO long!
