Look at the Lady Boners! - DMSI V2.2 5.5G

[SargeMaximus]

Another thing to consider is if the girl really thinks that you will do all the initiating, why would she risk initiating herself? I mean, if you're going to do it, why would she risk exposing herself to potential rejection?

Seems like she'll need to think the only she'll be able to have you is if she goes for it, 'cuz you never will. She'll have to perceive the value you have as something she NEEDS, not just wants. That need would have to overcome any fear of rejection, or any other fear.

I agree 100%. This is why, again, I say social status, but only if it works that way (not sure in your cases what your status was?). Biological/primal urges are good as chaos has been suggesting, BUT a woman is not always horny, and we need women to be sexual even when she's not *that* hot for a dick. Which is why I say status.

I don't know - I was never popular in school, but none of this happened in school. I went to an all male high school, but had jobs with women throughout where I was so oblivious to any signals of interest that I still look back and can see how many times I blew it.

Most of the occurrences happened when I was working full time as a security guard (man in uniform?) and going to college full time. Other than that, I kept in good shape, would say I'm above average in looks, know how to make a person feel good about themselves and make a woman laugh, and that's about it.

After school, I immediately became a personal trainer. There's major status in that. Women love personal trainers. Oddly, most of my stories occurred before that happened.

That's a trend I see with my brother as well. He's definitely the "moral officer" lol. Very positive (almost disgustingly so lol) and can make anything funny.

I've never had success with that, however. Not sure why. Or, maybe my "treat women like shit" routine is funny to them and makes them feel good. In which case that might be the magic button.