07-27-2016, 11:22 AM
(07-26-2016, 11:08 AM)RTBoss Wrote: Merely some musings on how to get women to act upon their desires, the ultimate goal of DMSI:
What is keeping most women from pulling the trigger? Fear of doing something socially unacceptable, fear of getting into trouble, fear of being rejected, fear of hurting someone, fear of judgement, fear God will punish, one fear/many fears, whatever it is - it must be overcome in very little time, via energetic communication. Also, love of something could be the case as well. Love for parents what they think, love for a boyfriend, husband, father of their children, children themselves.
I don't believe the power of love can be, or even should be, overcome, but why does anyone ever even consider overcoming a fear? Perceived value of the goal + hope in realistically achieving the goal must be greater than the perception of the fear. Perhaps growing angry, disgusted, and/or fed up and doing something drastically different just to see if there's a change. How can we encourage - literally give courage - women to act and get what they perceive as something they want/find valuable via energetic communication?
Most of the outgoing women I've encountered that have been very forthcoming about what they want, sexually, are natural go-getters, or they know their looks aren't going to get them far so they find they must vocalize their desires. Either the person must feel that what they believe will get men to come after them isn't enough, while simultaneously having hope they can get what they want through their actions. In the case of when I started dating who is now my wife, she said her attitude was, "I always get what I want." In that situation, that was me. Apparently, if I hadn't ever asked her out, she would have eventually done whatever it took to get me, whether that was to force me to ask or ask me herself.
I've seen other situations where women finally accept the advances of a persistent man. They're not interested the first 5 times, but become impressed by the tenacity. I wonder if tenacity can be energetically communicated - a persistence which a woman that needs persistence finds irresistible and thus decides she must act.
I would love for everyone to put on their philosophical hats and join my musings.
Women are not at all afraid to go after the guy they want, I've seen it countless times.