07-26-2016, 11:29 AM
(07-26-2016, 10:24 AM)RTBoss Wrote:(07-26-2016, 08:21 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: I've even thought it might be reality shifting.
Yeah, exactly. The last time this happened to me was over 8 years ago, when I did a meditation workbook daily for over 180 days. I'd get this internal body-slam quite often, and it hasn't happened since. Now it's happening daily again. Today makes 4 days of this happening.
Internal body slam. Yeah, that's another good term.
I'm getting it often too. In fact, a lot of my recent experiences seem linked to the DMSI reports I'm seeing. I wonder why...
(07-26-2016, 11:08 AM)RTBoss Wrote: Merely some musings on how to get women to act upon their desires, the ultimate goal of DMSI:
What is keeping most women from pulling the trigger? Fear of doing something socially unacceptable, fear of getting into trouble, fear of being rejected, fear of hurting someone, fear of judgement, fear God will punish, one fear/many fears, whatever it is - it must be overcome in very little time, via energetic communication. Also, love of something could be the case as well. Love for parents what they think, love for a boyfriend, husband, father of their children, children themselves.
I don't believe the power of love can be, or even should be, overcome, but why does anyone ever even consider overcoming a fear? Perceived value of the goal + hope in realistically achieving the goal must be greater than the perception of the fear. Perhaps growing angry, disgusted, and/or fed up and doing something drastically different just to see if there's a change. How can we encourage - literally give courage - women to act and get what they perceive as something they want/find valuable via energetic communication?
Most of the outgoing women I've encountered that have been very forthcoming about what they want, sexually, are natural go-getters, or they know their looks aren't going to get them far so they find they must vocalize their desires. Either the person must feel that what they believe will get men to come after them isn't enough, while simultaneously having hope they can get what they want through their actions. In the case of when I started dating who is now my wife, she said her attitude was, "I always get what I want." In that situation, that was me. Apparently, if I hadn't ever asked her out, she would have eventually done whatever it took to get me, whether that was to force me to ask or ask me herself.
I would love for everyone to put on their philosophical hats and join my musings.
I love to muse, especially about Shannon's subs.
I don't believe that someone can only love 1 person. That's erroneous. What we need in that area is an understanding that we are infinite creatures with infinite hearts, so we can (and should) love as many people as possible.
As for how to get women to initiate, I don't know. The only time I've ever had women come onto me strong was when I was treating them like shit. You can call me "bad" or whatever, but I'm simply presenting the facts.
Another thing to consider is if the girl really thinks that you will do all the initiating, why would she risk initiating herself? I mean, if you're going to do it, why would she risk exposing herself to potential rejection?
Another thing to consider is the role and sexist dynamics I believe in which is that women want to please alpha men, even if it means doing things they do not normally do. The approval of an alpha is worth more to them than sexual integrity. Ultimately, it's biological, so when we weigh a woman's chance at having an alpha's baby with her morals, it's easy to see what wins when evolution is concerned.
Another thing to consider is the female's ability to rationalize literally anything. She could easily suck someone off in public then later claim it was a "crazy mistake" for the benefit of society's integrity. When you couple that with the tendency for beta males to do a female's bidding, it's easy to see how using a woman to justify our effect on her to protect the both of us should be easy enough.
I'm not all knowing of course, but those are some theories based on real life observations and situations.