Shannon's DMSI V2.2 Journal

[Womanizer]

Abolishing child support (the only other way here) cause much, much more damage.

You're thinking in binaries. Abolishing child support isn't the only way. Making it a bit more fair (as in, considering the everyday expenses of the parents) would go a long way to prove that child support is truly for the child's best interests, and not reallocating society's resources from hardworking men to women.

EDIT: For anyone actually listening, go back and read my post. They gave me a worksheet with like... six questions and said, that's it. No appeals. If the mother wants to help you lower the payments, they'll "mediate," but other than that -- you're on the hook for whatever that thing spits out. Go ahead, plug your information in.

As for the other mess you're saying, never said life wasn't fair for women, etc. I was only addressing this myth you kept pushing that child support "ain't no thang" and that it's hard to get. That's incorrect. You're misleading people when you say that and I wanted to make sure that some clueless dude doesn't stroll into this thread and believe that nonsense, only to get blindsided when the court railroads his @$$ because a woman held him down and stole his seed -- which you clearly approve of.

Take note, gents. Believe this guy at your own peril.

Was this woman living with her rich parents? Did the courts take that into consideration?

Regardless, this woman still got the short end of the stick, you made off better than she did for an encounter that's supposedly beneficial for both you.

I'm open to changing my mind of course, I think men and women should both be careful, but women more so.

Chaos is saying that they system is rigged , which is true. And no the system is not taking in to consideration his needs. So no they both did not make it ok. That's what his saying in along with more things. To feed and cloth a child monthly takes about to 300 to 400 dollars maybe less depending on the parent level of self mastery. So his getting screwed over by paying $675. This is based on one kid. I know a guys who's paying $1000 for 2 kids a month.