(07-24-2016, 07:38 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(07-23-2016, 09:58 PM)Lowe Wrote:(07-23-2016, 09:42 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote:(07-23-2016, 09:14 PM)Banksy Wrote: Women have to worry about getting pregnant, so rape is a big deal. In our case, aside from worrying about std's we pretty much have nothing to worry about.
Oh yeah, nothing to worry about. Child support payments, being viewed as a delinquent father, nothing to worry about at all.
If and only if I was 100% sure I am the father, I would have no problem paying child support. Look, it is still your kid, dislike you may of his/her mother, and the kid deserve adequate parental support. It isn't the child's fault that he or she is born under the circumstances. Most if not all the money paid out as child support would go straight into childcare, food, etc. costs anyway.
I would always go for being viewed as a delinquent father over being a single mother and having to raise a kid you did not really want to have / someone seen as careless and slutty who managed to get impregnated unintentionally, especially when they're carrying all that weight in their stomachs for 9 months while all can see.
Really? If a woman FORCED you to cum inside her and decided (against your wishes) to have the baby, you'd be completely fine paying child support?
Wow.
I don't see being forced like that happens to many people. Not unless one is turned on enough to cum in the first place and/or somehow can't gather the strength to wrestle out of it. Plus the fact that if it happens one time the probability of pregnancy is very low.
Add to the fact that not as many people are forced to pay child support for their unwanted kid as you think. It is not that one ask nicely and the other automatically gets money withdrawn from the bank account, no hassle.
So unlikely, but sure, make an exception to the rule that if it happens as you say.
You're basically trying to argue against the point by making a 1 in a 1,000 example that is extremely unlikely to happen. Doesn't render the other 999 out of 1000 that justify this point invalid.