07-23-2016, 06:48 PM
There's a lot of truth to that. I see this whole discussion as just being relevant to certain people and their mindset. Some of what is said in PUA is ridiculous and parts are based on evidence. The term neg wouldn't be around if it hadn't lead to some positive circumstance. Some people are able to handle it when communicating others not. Before I would think neg is ridiculous, why would I ever say that to someone, I wouldn't want it said to me! After a while people become experienced and know how to handle the shit with a smile. Now I'm not afraid of saying "love that dress" in the right scenario with a hint of neg. Clearly communicate exactly what I want the female to understand. This comes with practise, being self realized and a lot of FGS reduction.