Shannon's DMSI V2.2 Journal

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This idea that women like dangerous criminals is very outdated and flawed and based mostly on the concept that women like "bad boys" because most guys who started PUA in the 90s were shy "nerds" who were frustrated that women weren't making the moves. A little bad boy is fine and fun, but the idea that you need to treat women like shit is coming from a group of guys who were talking about the frustration of their dating lives in the early 90s on newsgroup forums. I work in software, pretty geeky, but to be using newsgroups in the early 90s required some next level geekdom. To them a bad boy was any guy who was relaxed, care free, and had 0 approach anxiety. To them playfully teasing a woman was being "an asshole" even though the woman is laughing and having fun.

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Is this your version of a "primal" male? If it is so, then, my friend, no wonder that you aren't in full support.

To be a primal male than a woman so wants to f*ck and wants to have kids with don't have to treat women like shit or be a criminal or whatever.

The primal part is better not put it words. It's just the mindset, the attitude of a man, or let's simply say the aura he carries around himself no matter what his profession is, how he looks, how much money is in his bank account, or how fast does he drives his car. The rawness, the aggressiveness doesn't actually mean swinging a sword.

You can be a geek and be a primal male. You can be a whoever you want to be, and not have tattoos, and not take steroids and be a primal male.

Well we need some clarity then

are we talking about having an aura of a cocky fratboy, a bad boy criminal, or a masculine man? Because those are all very different things.

A masculine man, of course. But who are we to judge that that cocky fratboy ain't a man? Similarly, who are we judge to that wimp, who we call wimp isn't a man? No one.

I'm responding to this:

Narcissistic, violent, full of testosterone? THIS will get you your raging bathroom sex.

Remember, in primal days, there were very little courtship rituals. Men pretty much killed the alphas of other tribes and impregnated their women. This wasn't even considered "rape." Rape wasn't even a concept then.

I don't believe that makes a man masculine.

Before MSI is made to project the aura of a narcissistic and violent man it would be much better served to have it create an aura similar to am6 or sm3.

What does really comes to your mind when you hear the word, violent?

We don't make the rules, we play by it. Things were physically cruel back in the days. We cannot change that, and we cannot change the effect that it had on us biologically. Upon us, and upon women.

Now, of course being violent, in today's world doesn't mean that we'll go around swinging clubs and killing people. Violence, try not to look at it in a negative frame for a moment, can actually mean, in today's world, being full of belief and self-assertiveness. Maybe to succeed in business, or walk on that stage and give a kick-ass speech. Not being afraid to tell a woman she is beautiful if you feel like it, no matter how she reacts. Or tell her otherwise, if you chose to.

World is full of possibilities when we let go of negative associations.