(07-23-2016, 10:39 AM)bits Wrote: r selected - desire to sleep with as many dangerous/aggressive men as possible in order to have as many children as possible with a biased towards birthing males who will also go out and impregnate as many women as possible.
k selected - desire to sleep with less men to have less children but to provide more resources to the few children they do have
Even women with a sexual inclination towards k-selection will STILL prefer breeding with the highest quality (re: aggressive, alpha) male she can attain. And THEN, she'll lock down a mate that doesn't necessarily turn her on sexually, but will provide for herself and her children. Sorry guys, that's fact. The idea of "the good girl" is a myth. Even the most reserved, demure woman you've met has most likely spent some time with the cocky, bad boy alpha. Thus, to reach the goal we want, the best solution is to go aggressive with the aura.
EDIT: Unfortunately, because the universe is a perfectly balanced equation (or at least strives to reach that equilibrium), there will be a "counteraction" for having such an aggressive aura. And that counteraction is: Get ready for relentless amounts of AMOGing from other men. They might even perceive you as a rapist. I'll never forget the time I decided to wear APi and Evolve on the same day and go to the bar... dunno how I got out of there alive.
As men, we really need to get over this "women are wonderful" effect and look at life as what it is -- a massive competition, albeit one we can learn and grow from. In my opinion (and I suspect Shannon's already included this in DMSI), the sub should reconnect men with their innate masculine drive, the drive that's been beaten and shamed out of them. The reason why women go for the extreme "abusive" man is because the alternative is the completely emasculated, "I WANNA SHARE MY FEELINGS WITH YOU, MY BEAUTIFUL SNUGGILYWUGGINS UNICORN" male.
