07-23-2016, 07:08 AM
(07-21-2016, 12:14 PM)Shannon Wrote: What im saying is, we need to identify that "it" factor and magnify it. Getting women to initiate sex in public is next to impossible without it.
So what exactly do you guys think that "it" factor is? Wealth/fame/power?
I just saw this post. My input:
I think the question is NOT only whether I am attractive to her or not but why she must approach me first/initiate, when she can wait for me to do it (after she give her subtle signal for me to come and get her). What is the rush?
Is there an urgency? They must outdo competitors? Are they any competitors?
Example: When I want to pass a message to someone and I know they are going to call me in a few hours, I might just wait until they call me. But if the message is urgent then I will call first. Due to the urgency, I initiate instead of waiting. So who initiate changes depends on the priority.
The women may want to be the first among their competition. Without competition they is no rush to initiate, they may wait or do the initiating later after taking into account all other factors that may come into their mind. They might even think I am not interested as I didn't do the approaching despite their signals.
Else why the women need to approach me in public and initiate sex when after I am getting the IOI and I didn't do anything about it.
The urgency like lust block all sorts of judgement as there is a sense that there is no time to think about all that.
So IMHO, urgency is one of the "it" factor.
