07-22-2016, 01:38 PM
(07-22-2016, 01:24 PM)Dmitry Wrote: Sargerelax. Its quite opposite. We are NOT victims, indeed. Frankly, I thought it myself then first heard of it.
Lets make things clear. Transgenerational issues puts some pressure on us and if we want to solve it we need MUCH more courage and efforts than those "motivational guru actions". Do you want to know why? Here is an answer: loyalty to our family. People die for this loyalty. They can have health issue, they can never create a family or give a life for a child FOR LOYALTY. They are dong it unconsciesly.
Most people will act and do everything just not to break the loyalty.
Okey...do you think Richard Branson is cool? Have you read his autobiography book? A read line- his mother, his grandfather. They are strong people. He has access to this power.
No victim attitude, quite opposite. We just searching for solution where it is.
No victim issues. We just looking for solutions where it is, and not where we want.
Okey, if you are loyal to a person in your family who is unfortunate - your life be not great. And releasing this loyalty will ask of you GREAT effort. If you can - you can be free. (Not about you, its a example).
We dont know details about Tony Robbins family, especially grand parents.
It's kind of hard to understand your posts because of your english, but the overall message (I believe) is that we can do something about it. Great.
You speak of family and it's interesting because I have always been the black sheep. My family is very low-value and as I've improved they have more or less stopped associating with me (unless I make an effort) so I see how that can be.
However, I do not believe it is a matter of hereditary (inherited, genes etc) but more a matter of bonding and trying to remain as part of the faction.
My cousin (for example) is going through some major issues as he tries to break free without breaking free. I can see his loyalty to his family holding him back.
For me, I understand people more and know that you can bond with people without owing them your soul.
As for the rest (like getting good with women and etc) it's all just behaviors imo. Find out the right behaviors, and you'll be successful.
As for Tony Robins, we do know a bit about his grandparents because we know his parents who are offspring of his grandparents, isn't that how it works?
