Well, you don't want to criticize people for their actions and it seems like you don't do that. As far as being stuck in the middle: it sucks. I've been there. I guess you have to ask yourself who's the better friend. Who do you feel like could be there for you when you need them. I would say since the dude she broke it off with is your best friend and you feel that her actions are inexcusable then obviously you should break contact with the girl. All you can do now is be there for your friend and help him get his mind off things. As far as the girl.. say you see her again at a party or whatever just understand the things she's done in the past but I wouldn't let that get in the way of a friendly conversation.
The situation I had before was the same except I became better friends with my friends ex-girlfriend and I saw deep into my male friends motives overall. He was just a very manipulative person but also compassionate so it was hard to see the bad side of him. I killed a friendship but I was ok with it.
The situation I had before was the same except I became better friends with my friends ex-girlfriend and I saw deep into my male friends motives overall. He was just a very manipulative person but also compassionate so it was hard to see the bad side of him. I killed a friendship but I was ok with it.
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