(06-14-2016, 12:41 PM)Shannon Wrote:(06-14-2016, 02:34 AM)Lowe Wrote: I agree as well, so far. I met an old friend 2 days ago and today I talked to this girl whose graduation "hat" had the same school name that I went to, so I approached her. The convos were very pleasant but no sexual tension. Somehow it felt really "wrong" in that moment to ask for her number.
I was not 100% interested and to be fair I have to do better with creating tensions, with or without AOSI, anyway. This is my non-definitive observation of AOSI.
I feel the energy (in terms of hot breath and such) are most visible when listening less. I listened only 6 loops last night.
It is entirely possible that the sexual tension is being felt by HER, not you, and that she is not making that fact outwardly visible. I see that a lot.
I was kind of thinking, I feel the way I imagine a teenage girl feels when she's waiting for a guy to rush her off her feet, one of my close female friends just turned 22 and is crushing hard on a guy from her campus, the way I feel around women feels kind of like what she describes her feelings as when she isn't around him and doesn't have to keep her A-game on, so I'm wondering if you are right and they could be feeling sexual tension but I'm oblivious because I've gone mushy, is this like a proper role reversal lol, like am I essentially a hot babe around some nervous guys, I don't feel any urge or desire to take action and I can't say for sure if I would actually act upon a request because I feel indifferent at the time. This sub is nailing confidence 100% I haven't felt nervous at all, I'm in the presence of a hot babe and she may say something flirty and my only reacion is a little blush (kind of like a hot babe when she gets an awkward or even honest compliment) but it doesn't shake me at all, in the past I tended to get nervous quite often.
So let's roll with the she could be feeling the sexual tension theory for now and hiding it, why can I not act, I'm on autopilot for other stuff instead, I'm essentially just waiting for a princess to come and sweep my off my feet lol. That sounds so weird on so many levels but these situations are just so difficult to describe.
I'm not saying I'm crushing on them, because after the interaction ends I just revert back to normal, I only used crushing because the way I feel at the time is similar to how my friend described her little crush today. One day I will use the better writing subs and my comments will make sense.
Waiting for the minititan has lost the plot and now thinks he's a hot babe comment*