Athena's Attracting Perfect Boyfriend Journal

[apollolux]

Withholding sex is absolutely the WRONG thing for a woman to do if a real man will accept being in a relationship with her; men are likely looking for sex first because it's a helluva lot easier to add connection and such to an already sexual relationship than it is to add sex to a non-sexual one.

Also, I get the feeling you're playing these guys with your intentional indecisiveness, Athena. Abundance mindset is one thing, but you seem to be letting these guys believe something that's not true, which is that you're actually interested in them instead of letting them dangle as backups.