05-31-2016, 11:11 PM
(This post was last modified: 05-31-2016, 11:11 PM by JackOfHearts.)
(05-31-2016, 08:20 PM)CatMan Wrote: I have experience with holding grudges. Against women who wronged me, or didn't give me what I wanted etc. Then, down the road, vaguely similar situations with other girls, or girls who looked vaguely similar, I'd find myself carrying over at least some of that to THEM. Even though in reality, they are completely separate beings. So, I've found it can easily spillover to others undeserving of it, even if you THINK you aren't doing that.
That's the reason why I decided to not hate my ex even if she deserves it fully. I think if you start to hate a woman sometimes you mind begin to make generalization about women, like women do about men. So even if someone deserve your hate you shouldn't hate that person just to feel more free.
