05-11-2016, 04:14 AM
(05-10-2016, 09:15 PM)apollolux Wrote: Why are you toying with this guy? If you still think he's interesting after all this time exchange numbers and give him the shot he seems to have earned. He's going to lose interest very soon if you keep going this path of stringing him along, as just like women do men will almost certainly free time in their busy schedule if we think a woman is worth our time, so don't you dare use that as an excuse to disqualify him.
As a guy that has been toyed with... I do agree. I've always wondered why women communicate with me if they have no interest in meeting face to face?? This applies to the women I've met online.
Most of the women I meet with my schedule, I work with. They say they want to be friends and I'm cool with that. Then when I ask them out as a friend, the friendship ends. wtf?? It's more fun to socialize outside of work.
My belief is... you go out as friends. You may introduce him to a friend of yours, Miss Right and he may introduce you to a friend of his, Mr. Right. So many, what ifs...
(05-10-2016, 09:58 PM)Athena Wrote: Why is he asking my number to text if
we already message on the app?
If there is even a slight chance it's a
sign of interest, I'll give him my number.
There's also one other guy asking who I
like too but I like this one more & one who got
I think he got annoyed cos I wouldn't give my
number but only gave a link to a private
voice chat site.
I have had problems with guys on my phone before
but maybe I need to let go of those past things &
trust a bit more?
Now in your defense. If he can message you via the app, then why does he need your number? You can plan a date and meet in person via the app and never exchange numbers. I've done that!! I've also changed my phone number several times because women I wasn't interested in, kept calling me.
If he really wants to meet you... he will; not having your phone number in this day and age of technology where there is social media to stay in touch with each other exists... isn't a valid enough reason not to meet someone in person.
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