05-10-2016, 08:32 PM
Reading about Cashmere Cat's and Rising's experiences yeah I can relate. I have a close match too.
From what I can see on the dating app and on his instagram, (I didn't stalk, I asked!!) basically he IS my type physically too, like eye colour, face shape, basic hair colour and one of my preferred body types, preferred age range and also like the other one I liked at my work before, he's musical too. But also a very sweet personality that I like. And so far acting very gentlemanly in his messages on the app! Plus he right-swiped me, and usually messages me every two days and usually apologizes for being busy with work so not answering sooner and he's asked if we can text as he says he doesn't use the app much. He hasn't got my number yet BTW!
Anyway the catch is he works a LOT. I know that's legit and not some bullsheet excuse but that also means there's a strong chance he'll never go beyond text buddy. Oh, here's another thing, sometimes his messages are quite long, which is also a good sign. He doesn't flirt a lot, but he DID say his back was sore & he needed a massage which some guys said was a flirt! and when he said "what else do you want to know?" when I asked if his eyes are naturally that colour I said I didn't want to bombard him with questions and he said I don't mind you bombarding me. When I commented on a photo (not of him) he said he has heaps more on his phone. (No buddy, you are NOT getting my digits yet. I dunno!)
Often askikng how my day or weekend have been & saying about his.
So, he's probably a close thing, you know?
I'd like to go on a date with him, but it might never happen and I'm - bit like what Cashmere Cat said - I'm trying to appreciate what he DOES offer.
Be nice even if he's just a sign a match who IS available and also a lot of what I want is on the way.
From what I can see on the dating app and on his instagram, (I didn't stalk, I asked!!) basically he IS my type physically too, like eye colour, face shape, basic hair colour and one of my preferred body types, preferred age range and also like the other one I liked at my work before, he's musical too. But also a very sweet personality that I like. And so far acting very gentlemanly in his messages on the app! Plus he right-swiped me, and usually messages me every two days and usually apologizes for being busy with work so not answering sooner and he's asked if we can text as he says he doesn't use the app much. He hasn't got my number yet BTW!
Anyway the catch is he works a LOT. I know that's legit and not some bullsheet excuse but that also means there's a strong chance he'll never go beyond text buddy. Oh, here's another thing, sometimes his messages are quite long, which is also a good sign. He doesn't flirt a lot, but he DID say his back was sore & he needed a massage which some guys said was a flirt! and when he said "what else do you want to know?" when I asked if his eyes are naturally that colour I said I didn't want to bombard him with questions and he said I don't mind you bombarding me. When I commented on a photo (not of him) he said he has heaps more on his phone. (No buddy, you are NOT getting my digits yet. I dunno!)
Often askikng how my day or weekend have been & saying about his.
So, he's probably a close thing, you know?
I'd like to go on a date with him, but it might never happen and I'm - bit like what Cashmere Cat said - I'm trying to appreciate what he DOES offer.
Be nice even if he's just a sign a match who IS available and also a lot of what I want is on the way.