Went out again with a group of people from a club with no specific intention of picking up girls or anything. The entire intention is to have fun and I achieved that goal fairly well. Me and the group of people went to a bowling alley and played a game. I lost by a wide margin but I had lots of fun so I didnt really care. One girl was playing and she wasn't doing very well. I have her pointers and she ended up beating everyone afterwards. It was cool to help someone out but the thing that irked me was my need to be recognized as the person that helped her. A part of me wanted to her to say thanks you to me for helping her out. I felt needy and wanted validation. Of course she didnt give me it but now I feel fine about it now.. I met this one girl that wasn't physically my type but the way she acted was very attractive to me. When she saw a shooting game in the arcade, she totally flipped her s***, as in she got really hyped and crazy.
Keeping up with the intention of the night, I talked with everyone and made some cool friends with these people.
As for the girl who left me on seen, I let go my attachment to her now after about 2-3 days which is a good time because I used to get hung up about girls for much longer. My rational is similar to those that of my trust. I give them an set amount of interest and they reciprocate then we can become cool friends or something. If not then its going to be a very surface level if anything at all. Find the cool people that are willing to invest in you and cut your losses for those who wont.
Keeping up with the intention of the night, I talked with everyone and made some cool friends with these people.
As for the girl who left me on seen, I let go my attachment to her now after about 2-3 days which is a good time because I used to get hung up about girls for much longer. My rational is similar to those that of my trust. I give them an set amount of interest and they reciprocate then we can become cool friends or something. If not then its going to be a very surface level if anything at all. Find the cool people that are willing to invest in you and cut your losses for those who wont.
Phase 1: The Foundation
AM6(2020)
LTU v6(2020-2021)
OF v3(2021)
Phase 2
AM6 Refresher + SM3(2021)
AM6(2020)
LTU v6(2020-2021)
OF v3(2021)
Phase 2
AM6 Refresher + SM3(2021)