03-25-2016, 06:01 AM
That's the first step, to admit that you are getting in your own way. Self sabotage is the single most common reason why guys aren't getting laid. It's not that they lack game or looks, it's a perfect cop out to think this. So now that you have identified that, what are you going to do about it?
Before I understood this myself, I was basically getting into 2 types of situations with girls. This was in art school.
1. Being over-the-top loud and aggressive just to get attention and validation. They say assholes get laid and I was a dumb kid barely scratching the surface. I was more concerned with being percieved as badass than actually getting laid. People thought I was a player, other guys feared me because I'm good looking. I only got laid if I was wasted or the girl initiated sex.
2. Awkward, shy and timid conversations with girls who were cute and inexperienced. They wanted to be my girlfriend. I tried to have sex with them, but they kept holding back. No timid girls for the Sickologist. You can't play boyfriend role and suddenly turn aggressive.
The root of all this; below average self image. In the years prior to college, lots of girls were expressing interest in me, but there was always some kind of excuse.
Fix your self image, and say fuck it whenever you talk to girls. You probably don't have to take the hard route at this point. Just focus on actually getting laid, it's the most simple idea ever. And if you ever feel a subconcious urge to pussy out again, remember that she would fuck uglier guys than you.
Before I understood this myself, I was basically getting into 2 types of situations with girls. This was in art school.
1. Being over-the-top loud and aggressive just to get attention and validation. They say assholes get laid and I was a dumb kid barely scratching the surface. I was more concerned with being percieved as badass than actually getting laid. People thought I was a player, other guys feared me because I'm good looking. I only got laid if I was wasted or the girl initiated sex.
2. Awkward, shy and timid conversations with girls who were cute and inexperienced. They wanted to be my girlfriend. I tried to have sex with them, but they kept holding back. No timid girls for the Sickologist. You can't play boyfriend role and suddenly turn aggressive.
The root of all this; below average self image. In the years prior to college, lots of girls were expressing interest in me, but there was always some kind of excuse.
Fix your self image, and say fuck it whenever you talk to girls. You probably don't have to take the hard route at this point. Just focus on actually getting laid, it's the most simple idea ever. And if you ever feel a subconcious urge to pussy out again, remember that she would fuck uglier guys than you.
