03-13-2016, 09:38 PM
(03-13-2016, 08:48 AM)AlphaReal Wrote: Thanks, I have read that book a long time ago, my takeaway - he says to simply start touching a girl from the get go, but I find it pretty difficult to begin with, since girls have their own issues to being touched. After reading that book I once casually placed my hand on a girl's thigh, she was shocked and almost jerked out of her seat, her reaction was new to me, luckily she accepted it later and didn't make an issue out of it.
He also talks about micro escalations. Just putting a hand on a woman's thigh, where there was no escalation before that point is just plain uncalibrated. On the other hand, if she did accept it, it also shows you something
If you want examples:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V3Z4Nq0OrrM