02-24-2016, 07:29 AM
(02-24-2016, 07:09 AM)AlphaScorpio Wrote:(02-24-2016, 07:07 AM)RTBoss Wrote:(02-24-2016, 05:07 AM)Sickologist Wrote: I can't stand earth and air signs, aries and leo are okay though as they don't get in my way. So that's the most important thing for me, water signs need each other. They understand my particular needs, preferences and tastes without having to shout it out. I made that shift from wondering if people like me to only caring about if I like them.
I also believe that Scorpios can see good where others can't - like when someone puts up a tough "front," but they're really good people on the inside and are just trying to appear tough...you can see it easily.
Shit this is EXACTLY what I have
@RTBoss Don't be, I welcome discussions as long as it doesn't get too derailed and off topic.
Yeah, I can see it easily but to me it's not really seeing the good. People who put up a tough front are very easy to manipulate, they are doing it to compensate some weakness they perceive in themselves. Being a scorpio I can't help it but feel the need to be in control and I feel safer when I know how to handle someone. Knowing their weakness is the easiest way. Maybe one day when I'm stronger mentally, I can let it go.
Most of my friends are not water signs actually, but those who are water signs do "get" me more. I can get along well with any signs if I can find a way to communicate with them. When I say I don't like how people are intimidated by me, I mean people who don't really know me. I don't care what people think about me but I don't like it when they keep a distance because they are "afraid" of me somehow.