02-20-2016, 07:51 PM
(02-20-2016, 12:09 AM)eternitys_child Wrote: day21
So I'm still dealing with some fear of people in new environments, even when I know some people in the new environment. If I expected to have lost this uneasiness already at 3 weeks into OF, I had been in the wrong. The sub still needs lots of time to become ingrained, and considering how deeply fear is rooted, it should logically proceed that it can be expected to take months to overcome fear.
I do feel little chunks of my life is being improved as Bits and pieces of fear dissolve as time goes on, but I think I might have plateaued on fast and powerful results for the time being. Although every time I say that I find myself on the verge of a breakthrough. But the excitement of the program has died down and now the real work starts.
Shannon, is there anything you can recommend to directly assist in conquering fears consciously?
Feel free to tell me I'm over thinking it lol
You're overthinking it.
Remember the program is designed to work in ways and at speeds you are comfortable with. That means it will work at different speeds for each person. You can't have expectations - just let it do it's job, and try to be cooperative.
As for things you can do consciously, I find that it's a balancing act. Some people need to be very aggressive dealing with them, such as they're puking with fear but they jump out of that plane anyway. Others would be permanently damaged emotionally from doing such a thing. It depends on too many variables I don't have defined to really answer that question.
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!