06-05-2013, 05:07 PM
(This post was last modified: 06-05-2013, 05:08 PM by AlphaScorpio.)
yes, very true Shannon. I like the "She'll be missing out on me" type of mentality, I've usually been the one who thinks that I'll be losing value by not meeting people etc. which left me feeling down on myself and low self esteem, recently however I have been thinking in the "they'll miss out if they don't meet me" mentality which really helps me and feels great!
Today I took the dog for a walk to the park and the river. The past two walks I have been seeing girls look at me way more, I walked past this one she was coming the opposite side of the road on otherside of pavement as we walked past I kept my head straight forward but I could see her out of the corner of my eye looking at me, so I turned my head slowly and grinned at her she then looked away and down at the floor almost blushing then looked back at me again then away in a sort of flurry lol.
I also had some woman come sit near my bench on the grass by the lake with her kid, she was sitting just in sight of my bench and kept glancing over at me several times, another woman passes me by with her dog and suddenly asks me how old my dog is with a smile, so I chat with her for a bit, staying in the same position, leaning back with my leg crossed (not over lap) and arms stretched out on sides of the bench, Usually I would've been so shocked if a stranger woman came and spoke to me randomly I would've shifted forward leaning towards her with wide beta eyes lol! she laughed a bit and went running on waving me bye.
And last of all I walked back down the road towards home and I see two girls in a car go past staring at me, I stare back with a smile and then I suddenly get another girl on a bench next to the pavement asking me for a filter for a cig, she had a cheeky grin on her face, I said "no I don't, sorry" calmly and carried on walking. "awww okay no problem!" she says.
overall getting alot more looks and attention from women like they are actually noticing me for once...haha not feeling like I need to take action and go speak with them just yet though...it's like I don't really give a crap.
Today I took the dog for a walk to the park and the river. The past two walks I have been seeing girls look at me way more, I walked past this one she was coming the opposite side of the road on otherside of pavement as we walked past I kept my head straight forward but I could see her out of the corner of my eye looking at me, so I turned my head slowly and grinned at her she then looked away and down at the floor almost blushing then looked back at me again then away in a sort of flurry lol.
I also had some woman come sit near my bench on the grass by the lake with her kid, she was sitting just in sight of my bench and kept glancing over at me several times, another woman passes me by with her dog and suddenly asks me how old my dog is with a smile, so I chat with her for a bit, staying in the same position, leaning back with my leg crossed (not over lap) and arms stretched out on sides of the bench, Usually I would've been so shocked if a stranger woman came and spoke to me randomly I would've shifted forward leaning towards her with wide beta eyes lol! she laughed a bit and went running on waving me bye.
And last of all I walked back down the road towards home and I see two girls in a car go past staring at me, I stare back with a smile and then I suddenly get another girl on a bench next to the pavement asking me for a filter for a cig, she had a cheeky grin on her face, I said "no I don't, sorry" calmly and carried on walking. "awww okay no problem!" she says.
overall getting alot more looks and attention from women like they are actually noticing me for once...haha not feeling like I need to take action and go speak with them just yet though...it's like I don't really give a crap.
