04-21-2024, 11:55 PM
I feel like both of you don't get me...
It's two on one here.
Anyway here it goes:
But the problem is I didn't focused at all on women and I don't have a social circle whatsoever.
So meeting women is very difficult if I don't go out or being in one.
AM is about being a lone wolf so it will not help it can get me depressed in a way because I'm a friendly person.
After the age of 30+ I have less friends no female friends and no social circle like school or university I'm basically just working my ass off or going to a bar once every two weeks.
Before AM I went every few days and still it is not easy.
And that's why I don't see a Strong-correlation between AM and success with women.
Because being less social not having many friends (AM helped me disconnect with friends because they are not the best) will not help with it....
But I'm not after the older women.
The women in the bars or clubs or even the younger women on the beach are very arrogant it's not like they had time to know me through a social circle.
If they did I can attest AM is a big advantage in social circles.
A year ago I've manifested out of thin air very attractive and younger women one became my gf and nothing fell apart. It's not like I didn't have the concrete walls for dealing with it...
She chase me before getting with her and also when we were in the relationship itself.
She saw me as an AM.
Could I benefit from more growth? Of course! And I will and did and will more again using AM that's not a question.
But I know people who are rich very successful business men some are multimillionaires do you think women just go and offer sex to them? - A hard NO!
And they needed to settle down with very average at most! Some with ugly and not high quality women because they didn't have a chance Compared to some guys who might be a bit less successful (not losers) that just worked harder and went out to socialize and had better charisma.
I want to mention I don't know how is it in the USA maybe you can just be successful or rich and that would be enough.
I live in the middle east. Here it's very different and difficult to meet women.
The best "Players" in NYC can be with 350-1500 girls
The best players who devoted to their lives to meet women here were with only 30-50 women (90% tourists and foreigners)
The local girls here are easier to meet through social circles only if you are at the top 2% of men in that circle (not hard for me because I'm very attractive)
But to get into these social circles is very hard because guys are 1000X more competitive here than other countries I know.
You can be super successful and your girl will be hit on 10 times a day by players clerks older men and even Police Officers.
You heard me right police men will try to take women to bars and fuck them illegally when they are on duty with their police cars
Maybe that will help to explain why I need attraction training in that regard.
I am thinking on moving to Europe in the future but now I live here and that's what I got.
To be clear
I know for sure if I were to live in Barcelona Hungary Poland Finland Russia Germany or Austria I wouldn't write this post.
I've been in these countries.
I still have girls texting me to come visit and sleep in their beds in these countries.
I'm really good talking to women in general.
And I still have girls in my job going after me but I'll not do anything with them because they are too young.
I didn't have a father figure but I worked on myself before AM and I still need to so I'm not coming from zero.
Personally I think a BIATBW run before another AM run through will help.
I didn't made any decisions yet and TBH I don't think I can mess anything up.
Even if I'll go with SM and then AM again it's not like I'm going to stop growing.
So I really don't get the reply by:
It's not about validation it's about competence.
About women will offer sex to just being successful it's again not what I've seen here in my country.
Even before working on myself for decades and having high confidence and a business (it's not very successful but people here really look up to a man with a business)
I still come from a very good family (it can be very rare) and I don't use hard drugs or beat women (another common problem maybe women face when dating)
It's just not something you can exude when you go to the beach. Women don't trust here anyone because of all these problems and liars...
I'm sure it's the same in other countries but the difference is day and night if you travel.
The difference is even clearer if you listen to women who will tell you what they experience in Germany in USA and other countries and what they experience here. (Different Girls who can to live here for few years and lived their whole live in another country)
I hope It's clearer now
It's two on one here.
Anyway here it goes:
Quote:AM itself focuses you inwardly, and away from women and sexI've noticed that!
But the problem is I didn't focused at all on women and I don't have a social circle whatsoever.
So meeting women is very difficult if I don't go out or being in one.
AM is about being a lone wolf so it will not help it can get me depressed in a way because I'm a friendly person.
After the age of 30+ I have less friends no female friends and no social circle like school or university I'm basically just working my ass off or going to a bar once every two weeks.
Before AM I went every few days and still it is not easy.
Quote:Running AM isn't about getting laid. It's about self growth, self improvement and self mastery.I've noticed... I didn't say it was that's why I'm thinking ahead.
And that's why I don't see a Strong-correlation between AM and success with women.
Because being less social not having many friends (AM helped me disconnect with friends because they are not the best) will not help with it....
Quote:Women will be offering you sex because you've got those qualities.Some women did and still do...
But I'm not after the older women.
The women in the bars or clubs or even the younger women on the beach are very arrogant it's not like they had time to know me through a social circle.
If they did I can attest AM is a big advantage in social circles.
A year ago I've manifested out of thin air very attractive and younger women one became my gf and nothing fell apart. It's not like I didn't have the concrete walls for dealing with it...
She chase me before getting with her and also when we were in the relationship itself.
She saw me as an AM.
Could I benefit from more growth? Of course! And I will and did and will more again using AM that's not a question.
But I know people who are rich very successful business men some are multimillionaires do you think women just go and offer sex to them? - A hard NO!
And they needed to settle down with very average at most! Some with ugly and not high quality women because they didn't have a chance Compared to some guys who might be a bit less successful (not losers) that just worked harder and went out to socialize and had better charisma.
I want to mention I don't know how is it in the USA maybe you can just be successful or rich and that would be enough.
I live in the middle east. Here it's very different and difficult to meet women.
The best "Players" in NYC can be with 350-1500 girls
The best players who devoted to their lives to meet women here were with only 30-50 women (90% tourists and foreigners)
The local girls here are easier to meet through social circles only if you are at the top 2% of men in that circle (not hard for me because I'm very attractive)
But to get into these social circles is very hard because guys are 1000X more competitive here than other countries I know.
You can be super successful and your girl will be hit on 10 times a day by players clerks older men and even Police Officers.
You heard me right police men will try to take women to bars and fuck them illegally when they are on duty with their police cars
Maybe that will help to explain why I need attraction training in that regard.
I am thinking on moving to Europe in the future but now I live here and that's what I got.
To be clear
I know for sure if I were to live in Barcelona Hungary Poland Finland Russia Germany or Austria I wouldn't write this post.
I've been in these countries.
I still have girls texting me to come visit and sleep in their beds in these countries.
I'm really good talking to women in general.
And I still have girls in my job going after me but I'll not do anything with them because they are too young.
I didn't have a father figure but I worked on myself before AM and I still need to so I'm not coming from zero.
Personally I think a BIATBW run before another AM run through will help.
I didn't made any decisions yet and TBH I don't think I can mess anything up.
Even if I'll go with SM and then AM again it's not like I'm going to stop growing.
So I really don't get the reply by:
Quote:Ask yourself what underlying belief that is causing you frustration due to not having had sex. For me, I've noticed that sex has worked as a validation, to feel like I'm worthy.Because I get that validation as I've mentioned from too young girls at work from clients from older women at work as well.
It's not about validation it's about competence.
About women will offer sex to just being successful it's again not what I've seen here in my country.
Even before working on myself for decades and having high confidence and a business (it's not very successful but people here really look up to a man with a business)
I still come from a very good family (it can be very rare) and I don't use hard drugs or beat women (another common problem maybe women face when dating)
It's just not something you can exude when you go to the beach. Women don't trust here anyone because of all these problems and liars...
I'm sure it's the same in other countries but the difference is day and night if you travel.
The difference is even clearer if you listen to women who will tell you what they experience in Germany in USA and other countries and what they experience here. (Different Girls who can to live here for few years and lived their whole live in another country)
I hope It's clearer now
AM6 (03.2024)