A lot of foreign women are interested in marriage to become US citizens, though. You have to be careful about that. If you bring a woman here, she'll start thinking and acting like the women we have here, and then you just might as well have chosen one from here at that point.
True that. They become "Americanized" so to speak, and their demeanor does change. I knew a couple people that came from India (I think) and after they'd been here for about a year their language, morals (yes morals), and other things had shifted. They're still good people, but you can tell the effect that this country has had on them. I've had many other college students say that they want to get out of America and leave. I'm not at that point yet, but if I learn some new languages, my opinion may change. ;P
And Rainbow, what's the name of that growth hypnosis you did? I'm interested in it. PM me if you don't want it discussed over the forum.
PS: Shannon, I hope I'm not breaking any rules in the sentence above.
(10-31-2011, 09:06 PM)K-Train Wrote: [ -> ]True that. They become "Americanized" so to speak, and their demeanor does change. I knew a couple people that came from India (I think) and after they'd been here for about a year their language, morals (yes morals), and other things had shifted. They're still good people, but you can tell the effect that this country has had on them. I've had many other college students say that they want to get out of America and leave. I'm not at that point yet, but if I learn some new languages, my opinion may change. ;P
And Rainbow, what's the name of that growth hypnosis you did? I'm interested in it. PM me if you don't want it discussed over the forum.
PS: Shannon, I hope I'm not breaking any rules in the sentence above.
You're fine.
I've been feeling this very small shifts in my fundamental self. This shifts consist of many minor but very significant things and their all folded together and seem to be very present in my awareness lately, not quite unfolding in whatever effects they are going to have. Almost like the sense that 'ok this is gonna be very different from now on' but I have not yet seen how.
I'm having a conflict between trying to be proactive about meeting women and also feeling very carefree and just like I want to forget it and whatever happens-happens. I have been SUPER horny lately and the dichatomy between woman in my life/no woman in my life seems to be dissolving in my mind; whether or not there are woman in my life-I am feeling more and more that woman are a part of my life and they come and go naturally. I'm getting that really sexy 'axe commercial' eye contact from quite a variety of woman, and older woman do tend to get spellbound. I've always been a bit ballsy when it comes to approaching-at least in night venues, but this set is making it ridiculous last few times I have been out, its been a little ridiculous, I literally burn out where ever we are-as in I will talk to every single (single) woman there. I'm doing it more for fun but there is a part of me that just wants to revel in female sexuality and push things-which if I seem to like the girl I will do.
two things that are more vexing lately-the temptations of pornography- if even for five minutes a day-I remember hearing this set killed that but only starting in stage two.
One of the girls I have been consistently seeing and liked allot has not responded to the three texts I sent this week-Ryan any advice?
Feeling really good lately-I can't believe I'm only a little over two weeks into this set. The changes so far seem pretty big.
You sent her three texts in a row? One would suffice, wouldn't you agree? At that point the ball is in her court. Let it go.
(11-03-2011, 07:48 PM)Cortez Wrote: [ -> ]You sent her three texts in a row? One would suffice, wouldn't you agree? At that point the ball is in her court. Let it go.
I agree. No more than two texts in a week, and after that, she's on her own. I generally don't even bother with two texts.
You are seeing a lot of changes, Rainbow, and only two weeks in, because SM is the atomic bomb of subliminals. I weren't jokin about how extremely powerful I made the durned thing. I also wasn't joking about being slightly afraid of it. lol But I am really enjoying it so far. I decided to finish my run through. Might as well, even though I almost never get a chance to socialize anymore. But I definitely feel good, and confident, and sexy, and more confident with women, and more ballsy about asking for what I want. Tonight I said some things to a female friend I was amazed that I said... no trouble telling her exactly what I wanted. Very blunt and direct with her. It really surprised me, even as I was saying it. She and I have always had a very sexually flirtatious relationship, but I have never been this blunt and aggressive about it.
Enjoy the journey. You're in for a really fun ride.
Ahh Rainbow, you seem to be going through what I was going through in the beginning. Learning to let go of that desire for women. It's great once you finally get through it but the beginning can be a little rough. Honestly, it doesn't sound like she's interested if she hasn't responded yet. And 3 is excessive. I'd send 1, hell knowing me I'd probably send none if there was nothing there. I mean you have to call it how you see it. But...after 3 texts and no response, forget about her, her loss. And like Cortez said, it's in her court. In all honesty, if a girl doesn't manage to text me, that means to me that she deserves nothing out of me and I'll just forget about her and "on to the next!". Be the one who isn't responding to her ;P Keep on your journey, 1 woman isn't enough to die over. Hell a hundred women isn't even enough.
whoa! touche' Ryan, well Put Bro-ski,well put!
thanks guys
now I didn't send her three texts in a row-sent her 3 texts over the course of like 7 days.
The last one being 'you fell off the map...sending out a rescue team'
and we had a really tight thing going-but I'm not attached or that invested in her just was a little confused about the sudden non-communication when we had been pinging back and forth and having sex once a week for a while, and this is not a good set to be on when your f-buddy disappears lol.
No while this is a bit strange and ultimately I do think there is something very powerful about never reaching out...I'm not there yet, right now its more like I follow my desires and push for what I want and alot of the time woman want to be involved, and if not-no biggie. Right now I'm not really buying into these rules-I find feeling free to break them infinitely more freeing, I simply responded to something she said once, then made a joke, then asked her to kick it 3 days later-and a lot of the time in the past she wouldn't respond to my text and then end up calling me to come over-I was just hoping Ryan might have had some 'secret sauce' text technique in his spice cabinet of button-to bed 'moves' so I could get the N't off asap lol but he's right-I don't think the situation is worth it-if she is not responding to me-but I have literally ZERO invested in it so then again its not worth not shooting a line out every once in a while lol Although I feel the sense that "if she can't text me then she doesn't deserve nothing out of me-next" would be more of a posture-as in I'm hurt so I'm gonna puff up my chest-for me at this point-Hopefully sex magnet will bring it to a point where that attitude is more authentic for me.
"1 woman isn't enough to die over. Hell a hundred women isn't even enough."-I don't like her that much lol-the only thing I'm going to die off at this point is brain exhaustion.
look at it this way if she responds and says something like i can't/busy but lets reschedule your golden if not then shes not that interested either and just move on to another girl/s.
Besides if you give it space and she is curious about you she may write you later and then you decide what you want to do with her. There not rules but a busy Alpha man is always doing something, which is why people fight for his attention.
As for your f buddy in my opinion, it sounds like she found someone else and pulled a "man" move so to say on you by not replying back thus saying its over. I may be wrong tho.
Rainbow, unfortunately there isn't some secret technique you can use to make her like you again if there isn't attraction anymore. Honestly, I lost women in the beginning of Sex Magnet too. I don't know if it's the new vibe they can sense or what. Actually I was very distant and indifferent in the beginning of SM so people thought I was a careless asshole at times.
But what I suspect...I used to do this to women too. I would just stop talking to them because all I was doing was having sex with them but I wasn't interested in anything else. Overtime, they began bothering me and esp. in the beginning of SM when my standards rose. I just cut them off and wouldn't talk to them ever again. Harsh, but I understand where she's coming from.
But I wonder if resistance is manifesting in your life?
That doesn't matter. Actually, my secret technique is this...You gotta remove her from your life completely, forget about her, delete the number, remove from Facebook. If she starts talking to you, be more carefree and indifferent and let her work her way back to you. In the next few months, you'll completely forget about her and any other woman that wants to do the same.
Ryan
(11-11-2011, 05:58 AM)Ryan Wrote: [ -> ]Rainbow, unfortunately there isn't some secret technique you can use to make her like you again if there isn't attraction anymore. Honestly, I lost women in the beginning of Sex Magnet too. I don't know if it's the new vibe they can sense or what. Actually I was very distant and indifferent in the beginning of SM so people thought I was a careless asshole at times.
But what I suspect...I used to do this to women too. I would just stop talking to them because all I was doing was having sex with them but I wasn't interested in anything else. Overtime, they began bothering me and esp. in the beginning of SM when my standards rose. I just cut them off and wouldn't talk to them ever again. Harsh, but I understand where she's coming from.
But I wonder if resistance is manifesting in your life?
That doesn't matter. Actually, my secret technique is this...You gotta remove her from your life completely, forget about her, delete the number, remove from Facebook. If she starts talking to you, be more carefree and indifferent and let her work her way back to you. In the next few months, you'll completely forget about her and any other woman that wants to do the same.
Ryan
Ryan, it might be some resistance manifesting in my physical circumstance as I'm feeling less and less internal resistance. I also think ur right on the money ur last bit, u propose a great place to be comin from and I'm already on the secret technique.., that said - gotta say ur prior mentioned suspicions seem a bit disconnected any reality..it sounded like u literally compared ur early developing sex magnet player self to a 29 year old extremely career focus woman x fk buddy of mine who WAS actually looking to settle down before I got my beastly paws on her..,implying that her standards rose and/or she got bored off me and then u said u understand where she was coming from lol
I can't stress this enough-I was super indifferent and carefree with this girl-thats one of the reasons we had so much fun-in fact she wanted seemed very much like she wanted to date and I made it clear that was a no go,also she was almost seven years older than me and looking to get more settled in...so now that I think about it with the smarter head..she prob just wanted to move on...in which case: good for her lol. Also last time we had sex I was not as into her and she said she felt it...seemed upsetting to her and could be that..in any case we need not dwell any more on it...as last night was of epic proportions..pursued for sex by a hot married woman..yes we made out after she lunged at me..and no, I refused to go home with her, a giant friendly competition between me and my bud over voloptuous sexy nerd girl involving dance tug of war,and a female, another different girl, proposed three way after her literal girlfriend felt left out..this set is so much fun, I'm hoping in later stages all nights like this end with fruition of the possibilities they present.. my poetic way of saying that some things fell through lol
(11-12-2011, 01:59 AM)RainbowAbyss Wrote: [ -> ] (11-11-2011, 05:58 AM)Ryan Wrote: [ -> ]Rainbow, unfortunately there isn't some secret technique you can use to make her like you again if there isn't attraction anymore. Honestly, I lost women in the beginning of Sex Magnet too. I don't know if it's the new vibe they can sense or what. Actually I was very distant and indifferent in the beginning of SM so people thought I was a careless asshole at times.
But what I suspect...I used to do this to women too. I would just stop talking to them because all I was doing was having sex with them but I wasn't interested in anything else. Overtime, they began bothering me and esp. in the beginning of SM when my standards rose. I just cut them off and wouldn't talk to them ever again. Harsh, but I understand where she's coming from.
But I wonder if resistance is manifesting in your life?
That doesn't matter. Actually, my secret technique is this...You gotta remove her from your life completely, forget about her, delete the number, remove from Facebook. If she starts talking to you, be more carefree and indifferent and let her work her way back to you. In the next few months, you'll completely forget about her and any other woman that wants to do the same.
Ryan
Ryan, it might be some resistance manifesting in my physical circumstance as I'm feeling less and less internal resistance. I also think ur right on the money ur last bit, u propose a great place to be comin from and I'm already on the secret technique.., that said - gotta say ur prior mentioned suspicions seem a bit disconnected any reality..it sounded like u literally compared ur early developing sex magnet player self to a 29 year old extremely career focus woman x fk buddy of mine who WAS actually looking to settle down before I got my beastly paws on her..,implying that her standards rose and/or she got bored off me and then u said u understand where she was coming from lol
I can't stress this enough-I was super indifferent and carefree with this girl-thats one of the reasons we had so much fun-in fact she wanted seemed very much like she wanted to date and I made it clear that was a no go,also she was almost seven years older than me and looking to get more settled in...so now that I think about it with the smarter head..she prob just wanted to move on...in which case: good for her lol. Also last time we had sex I was not as into her and she said she felt it...seemed upsetting to her and could be that..in any case we need not dwell any more on it...as last night was of epic proportions..pursued for sex by a hot married woman..yes we made out after she lunged at me..and no, I refused to go home with her, a giant friendly competition between me and my bud over voloptuous sexy nerd girl involving dance tug of war,and a female, another different girl, proposed three way after her literal girlfriend felt left out..this set is so much fun, I'm hoping in later stages all nights like this end with fruition of the possibilities they present.. my poetic way of saying that some things fell through lol
Well for me, there are a lot of women that 'cannot handle me' so to speak. Don't let that get you down, you are not doing anything wrong. You said yourself that she wants a man to settle with. My ex was like that which was why she broke up with me towards the end of stage 1. I was in that same exact boat. And it made stage 1 all the more harder for me. But, in stage 2 I became completely indifferent and didn't care about having any woman in my life. During stage 1 she also began to say I was coming off like I didn't care. And I was feeling that but I didn't know others did as well. I wasn't as much into the sex either, like you said. And perhaps the program pushes those away that aren't right for you and brings the ones that are. She probably just couldn't see a future.
However, that brings me to another point. The first girl I ever had a sexual relationship with ended up completely ignoring me and never wanted to get together anymore. Later on I found out it was because she developed extreme feelings for me and I wouldn't give her what she wanted, she had to distance herself from me for a while.
Ryan
Those seems right on point with what most probably occured, and I think I was alittle down on myself for it, especially since even tough I am very driven to sleep with ,many beautifull woman there's a big part of me that just wants an amazing girlfriend as well and they just don't seem to stay in my life.