Wildflower, you totally could have had them both! Lol. You could have said to both of them at some point "Did you guys just ask me to come home with you?" They either would have laughed or slapped you. Either way it would have been awesome.
Just give them both your number and see how they impress you further. There was one party I went to back in February, I wrote my number down a girl's arm in sharpie and gave it to another girl because I felt bad (she really wanted me but I wanted the other). Both texted me seconds later and had a huge interest in me, regardless of giving it to both of them.
Threesomes for the win. Oh man when those start coming to me
(07-20-2010, 11:18 AM)Ryan Wrote: [ -> ] (07-20-2010, 11:10 AM)WildFlower Wrote: [ -> ]I am by definition an 'introverted feeling' type on the Myers briggs personality test.
I'm sure WM will help bring out that extroverted side.
I expect Women Magnet to make my socialising more lively, but I don't expect it to make me an 'extrovert' in the correct sense. Nor do I want it to. I totally enjoy socialising already, I simply 'charge my batteries' when I'm on my own rather than in a group. And my internal world of thoughts and feelings are of equal precedence to the external world of people and things. I'd never want to be an extrovert, some of of my favourite and most enjoyable activities - walking my dog for example - all seem completely boring to the extroverts I know. But yes, Women Magnet add a sparkle to my socialising - yes please!
Quote:Wildflower, you totally could have had them both! Lol. You could have said to both of them at some point "Did you guys just ask me to come home with you?" They either would have laughed or slapped you. Either way it would have been awesome.
hahaha
there's always next time.
Dear WildFlower,
being through Alpha Set, did you notice any change in relation to BOTH of your parents?
I would very much appreciate your input on this one.
Yes and no. I had no tension from my mother, but I did from my dad through stages 2, 3 and 4. Disappeared during Stage 5. To be honest it was probably partly myself pushing my luck because I could; although I didn't see it that way at the time. A lot of the tension came directly from my dad as he didn't like seeing me become so confident, self assured and 'my own man' with my own opinions and beliefs; my ability - and no one else right - to make my own decisions. I can see why that would be threatening for any father but over time my dad realised it wasn't a direct threat, or response towards him but my own growth towards becoming a man. Perhaps this change at 21 that makes me a bit of a late bloomer but it seems to me that I'm now much more of a man than the majority of 30 and 40 year old's. It's this reason I believe every man should, as a right of passage, use the Alpha sub. I still have a healthy relationship with my parents. In fact probably more healthy now than before. The dynamic has changed though. I'm no longer in my dads shadow; or anyone else's for that matter. I know that change can be fearful, especially if is involves the relationship with your parents but I firmly believe I am - and anyone else would be too - much better of for using the Alpha sub. That applies to all areas of my life, including my relationship with my parents.
(09-06-2010, 01:05 PM)WildFlower Wrote: [ -> ]Yes and no. I had no tension from my mother, but I did from my dad through stages 2, 3 and 4. Disappeared during Stage 5. To be honest it was probably partly myself pushing my luck because I could; although I didn't see it that way at the time. A lot of the tension came directly from my dad as he didn't like seeing me become so confident, self assured and 'my own man' with my own opinions and beliefs; my ability - and no one else right - to make my own decisions. I can see why that would be threatening for any father but over time my dad realised it wasn't a direct threat, or response towards him but my own growth towards becoming a man. Perhaps this change at 21 that makes me a bit of a late bloomer but it seems to me that I'm now much more of a man than the majority of 30 and 40 year old's. It's this reason I believe every man should, as a right of passage, use the Alpha sub. I still have a healthy relationship with my parents. In fact probably more healthy now than before. The dynamic has changed though. I'm no longer in my dads shadow; or anyone else's for that matter. I know that change can be fearful, especially if is involves the relationship with your parents but I firmly believe I am - and anyone else would be too - much better of for using the Alpha sub. That applies to all areas of my life, including my relationship with my parents.
That's is a perfect answer to me, thank you.
I don't think any one of us can claim to have relationship with our parent's which don't carry some baggage; no matter how perfect that relationship is. It's the nature of being human and not been born into a cotton wool world. I don't know what to suggest really, perhaps tell your mum what you are doing and ask her to be positive and not to be alarmed (I didn't tell mine though so I've no experience on how it would go down) and perhaps buy your dad the set for Christmas (I'm thinking of getting a friend of mine it).
" It's this reason I believe every man should, as a right of passage, use the Alpha."
+1